Want to share a private text convo I had w/ a CD, and the crappy emotional manipulation she's trying on me & my partner, but don't have enough friends in advertising who can commiserate. What to do 🤔

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Yawn. Welcome to advertising. If that’s the worst, you’re in for a world of hurt. And. Stop responding via text.

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Lol. No, it's petty and I wanted to complain. Thanks for coming to my party!

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sorry you feel that way Op. Emotional manipulation is never ok.

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Can I ask you, did you “kill yourselves” to at least try and deliver? Like we’re you there until midnight etc? Did you bring her SOMETHING? Or empty handed?

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I had an ECD who used to operate that way too. It’s awful. Feel free to DM. I won’t share.

What kind of emotional manipulation?

We all need to read it to see

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It actually sounds like you’re being babies. Sounds like a legit response to a team who is whining about ‘only’ having two and a half says to do a project.

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Just share. Abusive, bad management needs to be exposed. We’ve all endured more than necessary.

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