Was ghosted a lil under a month ago. Still hurts :/. Trying to get over it tho. With time I’ll get there.

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I totally get how much that stings, but let’s be honest, you dodged a bullet. If someone is too afraid to communicate and talk about hard things early in a relationship, they’d never hold it together for the long term.

As you’re letting the hurt fade on that just know that you’re better off.

This! If someone ghosts you it (usually) says a lot more about them than you.

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