Was so excited to move into my new apartment after school, but the travel and craziness with work has kept me from enjoying the space. Whenever I'm here I'm just sad (cont)

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I have so plans for how I'm going to decorate or move things around, but then I get here after a long week and just feel lonely/depressed and don't want to do anything but lay done and lament.

How can I break that cycle?

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Set a small goal for the weekend ahead of time. Something within reach, like move furniture within one area of the apartment, hang up posters/art/photos in one room or on one wall, reorganize the bathroom, setting up a tv/audio system.

Point is, take it one step at a time.

When I am traveling every week, I find it hard to get the energy to get stuff done, but once I get moving it gets easier and I actually end up happier than I would have been otherwise

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Hang in there OP! I did the same too, but still love my place even though I get sad and lonely often. I started to go to gym, force myself to work from office (and not home) and am trying to stay positive. Sending you hugs and wishes!!!

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Thank you all!! Really needed that

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