Was told at my annual review by the only partner I work with that I was underperforming and have 3 months to turn things around or else they’re going to fire me.

However, one senior associate also submitted a review that was totally opposite (performing above expectations for being a third year, etc), and I have emails from the partner saying how much I’ve improved since joining last January. (Contd in comment)

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You need to find a new job, sorry. You’ve already made a bad impression and there’s no amount of ass kissing that will repair it sufficient for long term success there.

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Echoing what others have said.

I got sideways with one partner (despite many other partners telling me I was a rockstar). Said partner didn't like that I knew he was f*cking the 18 year old copy girl who worked at our firm as part of an underprivileged youth program. And giving her money to buy drugs for him. Biglaw is wild, man.

I received the talk. I killed myself in the three months post-talk. My mentor told me there was no way they'd fire me (he was a partner). Then the very next day, they fired me.

Don't waste your time trying to figure it out. Do the minimum to make it look like you are not doing the minimum.

And ask for more time on the website if it comes to it.

And jobsearch HARD. Practice your story til you can say it neutrally like its NBD.

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w o w.

Thanks for sharing your story and advice. Been hitting the job hunt and networking hard this week and will continue to until I can escape this hellhole. I hope you are much happier at your new job!

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Three months isn't very much time. I'd suggest you start looking to keep yourself safe. Also, without knowing more about your group, do you have opportunities to work with other partners? Unless it's your first year you should be trying to work with other partners if at all possible.

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Yeah, in that case the situation sounds untenable and you need to plan your exit unfortunately. You can use the senior as a reference

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I feel gaslighted - how do I take this feedback? Brush it off and keep chugging while I get more exposure to other partners and seniors, or start looking because I’m doomed? FWIW we’ve lost two associates since my review so maybe the firm needs me to stay?

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Sounds like possibly the partner’s hands are tied by firm management or they are just too weak as a person to be honest with you. If this review truly came out of the blue and you thought you had a good relationship with this partner previously (so they gave you no heads up for what are apparently serious performance issues), I don’t think you can trust any positive encouragement from them going forward.

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Assume you’re getting laid off and start looking ASAP. 3 months to “turn it around” generally just means 3 months runway before we take you off the website etc.

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Agree with others. Start looking asap. But don’t phone it in, or put differently, don’t let the quality of your work drop one iota. That will fulfill their prediction and you don’t want gossip following you.

You can also confront the partner and say “your annual review doesn’t match what you are telling me now.” But I suspect there are other things going on and this is less about you than the other things. Losing 2 associates would make most places concerned and attempt to keep others. Instead you are given the message to leave even though your day to day performance is praised. ???

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Lol A5 - truuuue.

And P1, thanks for that perspective. The partner even approached me the day after my review to ask “you aren’t going to leave, right?”.... it all makes me feel like I’m caught up in some drama that I don’t want any part in!

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OP, glad you are looking. This is so messed up I now wonder if the partner was hinting you should leave. Maybe the partner knows there are stealth layoffs and you are next, the bad review was a sham and the partner was hoping to dissuade you from working to meet their expectations only to get fired anyway. Good luck.

I am in a small firm and people like you are gold mines to us - great training, great experience, treated poorly by big firms and ready to find a sane life. You will land up in a better place.

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OP one day after saying you have 3 months or you are history the partner said, essentially, don’t leave? I’m not sure they are gaslighting you or just really mixed up themselves. Did you have a prior negative review, or was the first negative review the same time you were told 3 months or gone? If that was the first negative review this firm has really bad HR advice and poor instincts. The first negative review should set up goals and short term time frames for measurement. Firms can go 3-6 months working on a plan like that so the associate has time and resources to improve. If that fails maybe then it’s 3 months or you are out. If you feel comfortable with the partner, talk honestly and maybe you will get some clarity.

Yep. Literally the day after my review I requested a follow up meeting to clarify the feedback I received and he said, “You aren’t going to give up and leave, right?” Then continued to talk about how invested he is in my success the next three months... this was the first negative review, I started end of January 2020.

Honest talks with the partner just end up in a smoke and mirrors show of how well I’m doing and how helpful I’ve been. That’s why the bad review was so jarring.

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