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We just experienced our first meltdown with 2 kids under 2. We scheduled back to back dr appts for me and our toddler so my husband had to drive and bring everyone. However my appt was running late so my husband had to also bring the baby to the toddler appt. Baby was fussy and cried. Toddler decided to be clingy, did not want to walk and wanted to be carried. My poor husband had to wheel a crying baby and while trying to balance a toddler throwing a tantrum to the doctor’s office where they...

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Better him than you 😁

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...continued to be like that during the ENTIRE visit and on the car ride back home. We are traumatized! 😫

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Hugs! Welcome the wonderful world of tag team tantrums! It gets better and we have all been there ❤️

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Something that works sometimes for us is to explain everything that’s going to happen before you go someplace and what your expectations for their behavior are. There will be many tantrums, but I’ve found this helps a little.

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Thank you ladies! These are all funny and reassuring comments. Happy Mother’s Day to you all! 🌸

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Right there with you sister. The absolute worst when the toddler randomly decides not to walk and I’m baby wearing the infant so I can’t carry her 😩 solidarity!

Bless you.. I had the same before with my toddler, I even cried with her lol. It will get better when they grow up. I think? Hehe

This was us yesterday. It was a competition to see who could cry louder!

Yes, Happy Mother's day all around.

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