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Weird. 32 and only started thinking a kid might be fun to have with my boyfriend but also thinking “nahhh”. Going to be a fun 10 years figuring that one out 🤔

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Same age and position! In my case I don’t think me and my bf are going to make it sadly so that has me asking if I want to double down on my former/current no kid position as a 32 year old single female

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I think the good news is, it might be lovely to have a kid (tbd), but I’m also 100% ok if it doesn’t happen.

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I should not be LOL

I’m 37 and just now thinking the same with my wife. Let me know what you come up with.

I’m curious if you’ve also explored with your therapist that your not wanting kids is perfectly normal. Not to dismiss your experience or anything but the 2 reasons you listed both seem to attribute it to something negative and I want to provide an alternative view.

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