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Well, i finally uttered the word divorce today in a heated battle as I left for my flight and as much as i feel guilty for causing pain, I feel like I can breathe again.

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If anyone has gone through this process, amicable or not, it would be great to connect for support or just to hear your story.

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just went through the whole thing, feel free to DM me.

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