Went on a date last night and couldn’t help but notice his pupils were like very big, is that concerning? Hahahaha. I come from a family of super dark eyes and I don’t know many people with light eyes so I can’t tell if that’s just how eyes are? I don’t know if this is making sense

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It also could be because I looked hot yesterday (humbly)

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Pupils dilate in low light, so given that you were out at night and probably in a dimly light restaurant (as most tend to be at night)…

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My pupils are mostly always very dilated (except in like direct sun) to the point where I haven’t needed drops every time I’ve been to the eye doctor, they could see right in just fine. It began when I was a child, before I had ever even known what drugs or alcohol were so its not that easy to assume that’s why his eyes were like that. I’ve met a ton of people who also have the issue and my at home research on it is inconclusive! Doesn’t affect me in any way so I’ve never gotten it checked out or anything so he might not think it’s concerning either, he probably just gets a lot of “are you on drugs?! Why do your eyes look like that” comments like I do 😅

Additionally maybe he has social anxiety and medicates (functionally, not saying he’s a pothead) in situations where he knows he’d be nervous like on a date!

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Maybe he went on date while rolling. Lol

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No no no, that’s not it

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Thank you for your responses! Fingers crossed he’s a very very normal man (or just 1 very) and doesn’t partake in other activities haha

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If he has blue eyes, that’s normal with lower light spaces, I have blue eyes and I am not recommended to get lasik for that reason, since the dilation of the eyes would hit the scar at night and get me halos. So his eyes dilated is normal

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I have blue eyes and got lasik, no issues whatsoever. I never heard this actually. I am more light sensitive than others .

Was he acting high? Lmao

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Ohhh go with it sis! 🙏🏼

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