Went on a few dates with someone who’s beautiful, kind, smart and family oriented… turns out I have 🚩 that I’m not even conscious of… where and how do I even start

Gay/Bi men looking for virtual fun rn?

What will be a good reliable dating website for Indians males who are 40 plus and separated/ divorce .

Do you guys have a height preference? I’m talking to this guy who’s really sweet and I really like him but he just told me he’s way shorter than me(4-5 inches) and I don’t know if I should continue talking or just end it here. I always go for someone taller. I don’t care about physical appearances much but Idk if I can get over the height difference of this magnitude

New in town, where do I go to meet people (for friends and dating)?

30 M 🐠. Any F 🐠 want to talk? Let’s chat.

Anyone have date ideas for things to do on 1/1 in Boston? I am going out with someone I have been dating for a bit over a month and want to plan something fun for us to do, but not sure what is even open that day…

How do u convince wife for sex ?

28M (but look maybe 24), PA. Introvert, 5'9, eastern European/dark features. Love to talk philosophy but I can also be silly. Somewhat of a homebody but I do enjoy going out and exploring if I'm in company of friends. If I'm alone I'd rather be home and watch a psychological drama/thriller. LF someone who enjoys a balance of going out and lounging at home.

Ummm where tf is the love of my life? Can she already come find me or what.. being single is getting overrated😩

Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

Any tips on how to give a subtle message to guys hitting on me at work that I am just not into "that"? 🤦‍♀️

I’ve noticed a pattern with guys I meet off Grindr...All of them want to go for a second round and they are extremely passionate. I’m someone who overthinks a lot and not sure whether that’s a good or bad thing... the second (sometimes third round). For reference, I’m a bottom. To my tops, please chime in; provide some perspective, please. 😊

A question for the guys: was this a date?! Ran into a guy I knew in college at a bar, he technically asked me out (“we should get drinks sometime” etc), then paid for my drink. But as we were saying bye, it felt kinda platonic? Like just a hug and “good seeing you.” Or is he not interested? How often do you kiss on a first date?

So… are any NJ/NYC people planning a meet up?! 👀

What makes a dating app profile catch your eye?

Any male fishies currently in Michigan/Detroit area in here?

Wow this bowl is dead...no one single in La?

Ladies (and maybe gentlemen),

How many cat calls/unwanted interaction from random man on the street you get on a weekly basis?

How do you know if someone likes you in the beginning of dating? I met this guy online who I thought was cute and we went on a few dates. He always texted me right after the date and always initiates another date right after or within a day. He’s been sweet to me (ie when I was packing for a trip, he noticed there’s dirty dishes in the sink and he just started washing them for me) but he never texts in between dates and doesn’t really initiates much physical contact (he reciprocates when I do)

Any 30-40F in london looking to connect? 50M here. Please dm me.

Hi,
When you give in your resignation by email (whether you spoke to your HM prior or not): does the date you send your email count as day 1 of notice period or
is the day that your manager and/or HR acknowledge your email that counts as day 1?

Thanks

👋 ACDs!

1. What year (as ACD)? ✏👨‍🎓
2. What city? 🇺🇸
3. What compensation? 💵

Hi Sharks,

How much monthly in hand salary for CTC of 21 LPA including 1.5 lakh bonus?

do big 4 do TN visas for manager level roles?

My husband and I used to be very affectionate. We used to take at least 2 hrs everyday just to give each other emotional space. We would talk about what we’re feeling and why and so on. It used to be so fulfilling and beautiful.
But since we had a kid, all conversations are with a purpose. It’s either planning the next day, the next move, finances, etc. Amidst this, we lost focus on each other.

Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this and got back to their original selves?

Made 60k gains in stock last year, lost 40k this year while everyone getting rich off of crypto 😢😢😢 I’m still holding my stocks for the long term. Long live Altyrex and Peloton stocks. Down 30% on those stocks.

I’ve worked in mental health for 10 years now, and make around 76k as a clinical research coordinator. I left research in 2019 to work as a psychotherapist, but came back last year just to recover from Covid burnout.
I’m trying to decide what my next move is. I want to make closer to 100k, but don’t know how. I’m considering either private practice therapy or a hospital therapist job. Any tips in either direction would be awesome.

How much do brands pay for a logo to appear on a football field or as part of the clock/score ticker on the bottom of the screen? Does anyone have any idea of price ranges?

How are you all feeling about the job market and your interview prep? Full steam ahead or on pause?

I am currently seeking direct lending in Latin America. I am working with several clients that need amounts from USD 1 million to more than USD 50 million in the form of credit for their companies or projects.

Anyone interest or working in the Latin American Private Credit business please message me.

Any Charlotte folks here? Thinking of moving to the city sometime next year - what are some good neighborhoods for a young family?

And how’s the Indian food scene in Charlotte?

Hello! I need advice. I have 5 years of digital marketing, project and team management experience. I’ve been doing design work w/o realizing ux/ui was a career since the beginning. I didn’t keep record of those projects but I created a portfolio to show proof of knowledge/skill but it’s not lengthy. I know how to use design software, wireframe, prototype, and I do feel like a lot of my knowledge/ skills are relevant. Should I be going after Jr, mid or senior lvl UI roles?

How are you’ll doing? Has life gotten better …I am still trying to adjust

How hard is it to pass mbb interviews? First time going into the process and have just been self studying casing. Currently a masters student

GEP keeps signing new rfps for life sciences clients. Great news but does anyone have a suggestion on any life sciences procurement, SC consulting management user groups or places I can post jobs to ? And where do you all look the most for opportunities ? Doing research and appreciate the help. Thank you so much! Happily Recruiting mgmt consultants- absolutely love my job ... but need some advice. :) Thanks.

Anybody who has doj at pwc ac next week, pls comment,I would like to connect..

Guys I am planning for a business to set up in my spare room(Completely new home). Please suggest some ideas like renting a room, converting room to photo studio or so on. FYI I can’t do airbnb in Anaheim California as doesn’t allow short term rentals due to competition for hotels.

Wanted to understand what happens in FAANG companies if H-1b visa runs out and there is no I-140 in place to extend visa beyond 6 years. Do they transfer the employee to a non-US office E.g. Canada? Does anyone here been through this scenario?

I recently got an offer from UBS, had some questions regarding firm policies and work culture. It would be really great if anyone could help me with those.

People who mail birthday cards with nothing in them... Just stop

Since leaving the federal govt & joining consulting last year, I’ve already learned new skills + met some great people. I’ve also seen a few who are competitive to the point of toxicity. Just like the feds who’ve perfected laziness & stagnation...I feel sorry for them both. With the feds, they may not realize it, but they are rotting in place. For the hyper competitive consultants, nothing will ever be enough. For both, by the time they realize their error, it will be way too late.

My husband and I used to be very affectionate. We used to take at least 2 hrs everyday just to give each other emotional space. We would talk about what we’re feeling and why and so on. It used to be so fulfilling and beautiful.
But since we had a kid, all conversations are with a purpose. It’s either planning the next day, the next move, finances, etc. Amidst this, we lost focus on each other.

Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this and got back to their original selves?

Home for Christmas. My mom just told me my dad was diagnosed with some rare blood condition last week where your bone marrow stops producing enough new blood cells. More tests later this week, but until then no one else knows and we aren’t talking about it because dad doesn’t want to and they don’t want my grandma to know. Getting stoned in my old room because I don’t know what the fuck else I’m supposed to do right now. Yay!

Ummm where tf is the love of my life? Can she already come find me or what.. being single is getting overrated😩

It’s my 3 year anniversary of working and I feel so unaccomplished

Drake shouts out Houston because it’s the best city. That is all. 🤘🏽

My SO told me he wanted to take a break and I told him that we should rather break up for good but never heard back from him. During the break, I met couple of guys and things happened. Now my SO wants to be back in my life and I told him what I have been up-to. I gave him the classic “But we were on a break” line and he got more upset. I don’t think our relationship is salvageable at this point. It feels so weird few months ago we were so madly in love and now we are in this situation.

I’m 33, don’t own a home, don’t work at a fancy FAANG company, don’t make north of 150k. I have a toddler and I feel like I failed her by still not figuring out my life and career. Do all moms /parents feel like this?

Why is anxiety a thing? I'm a female fish who likes to golf. Just got new clubs and want to try them out but currently sitting in the parking lot at the range and can't force myself to go in because it's crowded 😫

I’ve been feeling extra sad and emotional when someone is mean to me. These things never affected me in the past. But the pandemic has changed me who I am as a person.
What’s your favorite way to not let other people’s words affect your feelings?

Why’s there so much work 😫