Went out last night to a hookup bar, and kissed two guys. A friend of a friend told me I was kissing everyone. I was having a good time and that just ruined my night. WHY are people so judgy?!?

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Sounds like you did better than your friend - he’s just jealous 😜

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😂😂😂 you’re so cute. I’ll tell you something. Avoid going to a hookup bar with a friend. You are going to a hookup for a reason and wouldn’t want anyone (even your best friend) to know what you did there 🤗. Which city btw?

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I’ll give you a great piece of advice someone once gave me when I was feeling really down: What other people think about me is none of my business.

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Not rupaul 😂

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Grow a thicker skin

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You seem empathetic.

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Lmao yeah if kissing two guys is too much for your friend sounds like you should bring them along next time. That’s pretty reserved in my experience 😜

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Should not*

Only two? Sounds like a slow night.

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What bar?

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A1 if youre in nyc. Ill go out w you and we can make out w as many guys as we want without judgement!

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Ya you do! Party on my friend.

Leave the haters at coat check

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You’re all right, thanks everyone!

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Prob just jealously because you know they would have rather been the ones kissing everyone...

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Maybe he thought he was at a hookah bar!

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....what’s a hookup bar?

Are you young? I’m gonna guess like 24-25 ish

Instead of your mindset going to being embarrassed, make it to feel like you “own it”. Be like “yeah it’s hard being the prettiest one in the room sometimes. You wouldn’t understand”

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Your friend is jealous of you

We also need hookup bars in NYC lol

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