Related Posts
Any late twenties fish here? 27/m/Manhattan
Any single, queer ladies here? 🔍
Can’t sleep. Any ladies want to chat? 👩🏽
Anyone want to go on a date today 32/F
More Posts
Are we officially called EY Parthenon yet?
Anybody joining on 21st November?
Hi folks, Deloitte USI's Advisory team is hiring aggressively for contractor positions with folks who have experience in the following domains. If you're interested, send me which position you're interested in, and your resume to referallguy@gmail.com
1. ISAM
2. Java Developers
3. Okta
4. Oracle Identity Manager
5. SailPoint IIQ/IDN
6. Splunk
7. Tech Assurance, IT General Controls
8. Vulnerability Management
9. CyberArk
10. Internal Audit
Additional Posts in 30s & 40s Singles
Who’s up for a chat? 👨 here
Any Chicago folks in here..?
35 M Chicago - 2 weeks off - what to do ?
Op drop her. You don’t need a girl, you need a woman who doesn’t play games and clear in communication. Let’s date!
Oh dear the thirst
Drop it. Dating shouldn't be this hard.
Drop her — lack of basic common courtesy is a no go
Pro
So the same day cancellation, no follow up, no response - happened once ? Or is this a pattern ?
LOL on 'he is not serious if he doesn't try few times ' ! There is difference between expecting some effort Vs Playing hard to get ! I personally don't go by these BS moves !
Rising Star
Lol at "try a few times." You don't have to try with someone doing those things unless she had some sort of personal issue that's suddenly come up that would justify her cancelling and disappearing.
How old are you and how old is she?
I would generally say if a person is not responsive for two or three attempt move on, but these are challenging times we are living in. I generally give people the benefit of the doubt - she maybe dealing with personal issues she is not comfortable to share. However, dating is not some sort of a game or test. A person being disengaged because they had a major emergency with their family is acceptable. A person not responding to test how interested you are, on the other hand is a no go. You met her, you know which category she falls in to. Keep us posted. :)
Talk to her about this. Be open and have a direct conversation with her since you've been dating and fornicating (for several times), so it's not like you are trying to newly ask her out. Listen to what she has to say. If you're not convinced then you can make less effort towards the upkeep of current relationship (arrangement). It doesn't seem that you are both exclusive, so you can date others and perhaps she is doing so herself.
I wouldn’t do this to you OP 😉
Take the hint. Let it go. Move on