We're about to start planning our wedding. I have a huge family and friend group (100+) that I want to invite and she has a very small family and group of friends (>50). We haven't talked about this yet, but I wanted to get some opinions on this before hand. Should I reduce the be l number of people I want to invite to match hers? Is it unfair to her that I'll have a significant majority at the wedding?

Day shift or night shift and why?! :)

Guys today i sign joining form, when will i get appointment letter? Any idea

Why are the employees of the N.Y. State Board of Accountancy so rude? Smh

How did you find your “lane” as a tech professional? What are the pros and cons of each? Which sectors do you avoid?

Fintech, healthcare, education, social, HR tech, hospitality, etc ???

Do people have/use a personal financial advisor?

What is the average salary for an account manager in employee benefits at brokers firm? And what about a senior account manager salary? I have 7 years of experience in the health insurance industry. I want to see if I’m on track or if it would be out of line to ask for a raise.

Impeachment might backfire on the Dems, but proud as hell that they did the right thing anyways. Country comes first! 🇺🇸🇺🇸

SCOTUS just denied hearing Republicans case to overturn PA election results. It’s over (again) folks

Anyone have a private company SaaS financial model they wouldn't mind sharing to get some practice on?

Which one to join for Java Developer with better WLB & job security?

Cognizant : 19+ 1 JB
Datamatics : 25 Lpa (perm. Wfh)
Relevance Lab : 23.5 (perm. Wfh)

Thanks!

Is CTS still onboarding remotely ? Or only campus joining going on ?

In risk consulting/internal audit and I'm losing interest. I really want to look into deal advisory or accounting advisory. Any tips for trying to transition? Either internal or to another Big 4

Is there a “busy season” in cybersecurity? Specifically in big 4.

Hello, folks! I wonder if you have any advice/info for a person who is looking for an "investment associate" role in Dubai. I have a financial audit background (4 years Big-4), 1,5 year in deal advisory (half year financial due diligence department, 1 year valuation department). I have experience in TMT, retail, Energy and Utility and other industries. Currently I'm living in Eastern Europe.
What is considered to be normal in relation to WBL, compensations in Dubai for such role or similar?

Just found out I am promoting to M1 in Atlanta in FDD big 4. What salary should I expect in this market?

If someone said (over text) “happy thanksgiving to and for you” what would you think they meant? To be clear the intent was “Happy Thanksgiving to you” as a greeting and “happy Thanksgiving for you” as in, I am giving thanks for you.

Men of FB, how did you girlfriends / wives sex drive change with age?

what age did you get married?

Reached out to an ex after not being in contact for 4 years. Said “Hi, I hope all is well.” No response. Intention was not to get back together (we’re both married now), more to mend fences since we were good friends once upon a time. Was reaching out a mistake?

At this moment, I am almost depressed. I am in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now. In the past 2 years, we have fought more than we have lived days with peace. We both have high ego problems because of which it’s really hard to resolve a conflict. Things have recently escalated to calling names/swearing and even physically abuse from both sides. We both want to end the relationship, have tried so many times, but we cannot.

Cont. in comments.

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

Boyfriend got off the phone when the argument was his fault. Thinking about being the bigger person and calling him to resolve it, but realized I’m the one who always calls back and apologizes first. I want him to but also don’t want this to drag on. Thoughts?

What's the best relationship advice you've heard recently?

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

How you do you get over trust issues from a previous ex and trust your current SO? My ex cheated on my for months and I caught her by going through her phone and I find myself fighting that urge to go through my current SO’s phone even though I have no reason to.

My GF has trouble standing up for herself. She's on client travel and one of her co-workers made her really upset (very uncalled for and should have never happened). She called me crying. After consoling her I told her that she needs to go to her manager and possibly HR (yes it's to that level).
She told me she can't and she's not that person (she thinks she'll get the other person fired). She knows that she should and hates that she doesn't stand up for herself. What can I do to help?

I recently ended a 5 year relationship to someone I thought I was going to marry and everyday I worry I made the wrong decision. At the end of the day though our values weren’t in alignment - he became very conservative over the years (or more open about his perspectives on it).. such that he thought being gay is something not to be discussed/ encouraged, abortion should be illegal etc. And just felt an inconsistency with his level of compassion/empathy that was confusing bc it felt hot and cold

My boyfriend and I already live together (I moved into his 1BR apartment this year), and we’re excited to get a new place together in early 2023. Any practical tips on how to decide what furniture to keep vs. replace? We’re still renting, so I’m inclined to just keep what we have. What pieces are worth buying new now vs. holding off until we have a more permanent place?

My closest friend of 15 years told me she's been in love with me for several years. I don't know what to do. She's my closest friend. We talk about everything under the sun. I don't want to lose her. I could feel the pain in her voice as she told me this. She already knows she's just a friend to me. I'm serious about my girlfriend and we've discussed getting married. Is there anything I can do to lessen her pain and preserve the friendship?

I have a crush on my counsellor at work. She's much older but still really gracious and beautiful. Should I go for it or is this a bad idea?

I recently watched a video that talked about "voluntary reduction of income", which is where a person intentionally leaves their job and/or takes a lower paying job than what they qualified for in order to decrease chid support payments. I don't understand why anyone would ever do that? Can anyone explain reasoning behind this action?

Gift ideas for a SO? Looking for ideas to give to a guy as a token of appreciation. $50ish? Im seeing many girls turn to PS5 but I'm looking for something more personal

I moved to the US with wife from abroad a few months ago. We had a pretty great life filled with parties and friends. Now I feel like the grind is killing our passion. Any ideas...

Should I take my girlfriend back after she drunkenly kissed a random guy at a bar?
We were at a bar with friends and I left the bar because I was ready to go home. She stayed with friends and I later found out that she kissed a random guy and her friend had to break it up. We are 3 months in and I feel betrayed. She has assured to me that it was not cheating and just a mistake. She loves me and wants to stay together and swore to do better. I’m torn because I feel like all trust is gone.

Are there any developers here ?? Do you have any teams where there is just one girl among a whole lot of guys ? Do you hate it when these girls are not detailed enough ?