What are original “push presents” for birth of our 3rd child? I gave her jewellery already last 2 times... budget around 5k

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Will she not push is there's no present?

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Lol, weirdest concept I've ever heard of.

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Maybe the present of your presence

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I got my wife a Louis Vuitton bag but I’m not a principal so you have to get your wife a Birkin

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D5 why don’t you go and help him?

A friend of mine got a car

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Nowhere in my comment was I hating on him I said no judgment because I thought just saying wow could be considered snarky.

I love the idea of push presents so much. I think you can never have too much jewelry so I think you’d be fine with that. I think it’s also good because unlike bags, shoes, etc., they never wear out. You could also try other luxuries that she would love but never get for herself - fur, an antique she might want, art, etc. For some reason a trip keeps popping up in my mind as well - like maybe send her and her best friend on vacation after she’s able to leave the baby for a week.

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Chanel bag - timeless and can be handed down to one of the kids

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What is the child care situation for the older two kids? I’d spend on help so your wife can focus on the newborn and not have to think about anything else. Or maybe help with the newborn itself so your wife can have some time to herself each week from the start (to sleep, go to the gym, see friends, etc.).

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F here. Still don’t understand this. Why is this necessary?

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Happily married

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My mom got a Rolex after my sister was born. And that is back in the 90s

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Spa day

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Jewelry that represents the 3 kids. Like a ring with three stones

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Hermès Kelly handbag

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Sushi and wine. After 9 month abstinence :)

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A night nurse

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Everyone gets a trophy! 🤦🏻‍♀️

What's the name for a preset after a c-section, given that technically she doesn't push?

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