What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Hello!
I am very new to the States and am actually from India.
I have always been a girl who had many friends and was never alone.
I don't have any friends here unfortunately and wanted to ask if there are any Facebook groups or other forums especially for Indians who want to interact with each other.

In general, you can also give me tips on how to make friends.

Married 🐠 interested in your thoughts.
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