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Ultimately, you kind of decide that role a person plays with you. You need to address what value they bring, look at what it costs you, and if you can live with those downsides and there’s a net positive, just accept that this friend fills a specific place and time in your life. The older you get, the more you realize you choose who you include in your life and the role they play, and the other way around just puts you in the passenger seat of your life.

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Can you be more specific about hot/cold? What has given you that impression?

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