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What are y’all asking for Christmas this year? F 36 years old with a 3 month old baby. I need ideas! Should I ask for gift card for a Massage?

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Your hubby is a lucky man - Mrs P1 is gently urging me toward Van Cleef. Our first is due in a couple of weeks.

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Wishing y’all a safe, healthy delivery!

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You should ask for 50 gift cards for 50 massages. And that’s just your stocking stuffer. Think big, you just had a baby! I’m asking for an Apple watch. I’ve always had a fitbit and want an upgrade. I’m also asking for a giant bottle of Oribe shampoo and conditioner because it is like angels come down from the sky and bless your hair…but it’s so expensive.

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YES. My husband scored a great Black Friday deal last year at my spa. He got me 12 monthly services for the price of 6. I ended up using most for facials and my skin has never looked better.

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HOUSECLEANER. Mine comes once a month - best 150 I spend every month.

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A night alone in a hotel so I can get some decent sleep!!

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Totes. Get yourself a massage.

We just had a baby - push present came from Goyard

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