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What are your opinions on gender roles? Should men provide for women? Should women stay at home? What if both partners are working, who takes care of what? (Household tasks, cleaning,cooking) What do you all think of weaponized incompetence?

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People should do what works best for their personal situation. People should respect whatever someone else does as long as it doesn't affect them and nobody is being abused. It's not that deep

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Your question brought up this comic strip by Lunarbaboon to memory. Bottom line - Do what works best in the situation you’re in. I agree with M1 ☝🏼

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I think it’s something that each person in a relationship needs to discuss with their significant other. What works for one couple or partnership may not work for another.

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The only rule I follow is whoever cooks doesn’t do the dishes. Everything else is fair game

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Gender roles is an outdated model.

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What an adorably heterocentric view of the world confined to a very recent slice of culture and history.

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My ex and I teamed amazingly well. I made the money, she spent it. I did the chores and she told me where I missed things. #teamworkmakesthedreamwork

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“Successful relationships aren’t 50/50, they’re 100/100” Re: Weaponized incompetence, my dad criticized my mom about the way she did things for years so now she does nothing. Responsibility on both sides there. I’ve also seen it in men whose mom did everything for them because they couldn’t do it well

I think men are better than women

I admit it - my wife is just better than me at everything. We want things done the best way so…

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