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I’m in second trimester. I just came from my grandfather’s funeral, outside. My aunt was around her 2 siblings last week that had Covid and she hasn’t been vaxed. She hugged me and mom (4 weeks from her last chemo session) and only told us about her siblings after. I’m so mad. I guess I’m just venting but the potential complications for the baby, me, and my mom make me worry. Any comforting words?
How many days after a missed period do you take a pregnancy test? I’m so irregular that I’ve missed 2-3 periods in a row earlier this year without taking one (and wasn’t pregnant).
ABCD trying to bag a fob girl. Help. Doesn't like to talk because her English isn't good. I just wanna say "baby girl don't worry keep speaking your language, I'll get it translated" 😏
Had 4 beers, 12 chicken wings, and a giant piece of cake. I'm going to sleep like a baby! And might have to go for an hour long tomorrow. But first things first, 💤
My three year old now doesn’t go to bed until around 9 pm (and gets up around 7/730 am which we prefer… don’t want to move that schedule). I used to squeeze in extra work from 8-930/10 but it’s no longer feasible. How do you manage? I see my options as… 1) find a job that is more 9-5 2) start waking up early to work in the morning (not a fan as I think sleep is very important) 3) trade nights with husband where every other night I work vs him while the other hangs with the kid after 8
Real talk 2: if you decide to have children, it’s entirely possible you will not like the child at first (or at various points). It’s a huge decision, and having complex feelings about the matter is completely valid
Serious question. What baby items are most expensive? (other than diapers, formula, college education, nanny.. Etc)
This mother is so worried about not sitting next to her 20 year old son. He is remarkably okay with it.
People on FishBowl be like: “Hey 🐠, I’m 33 and just got a $2.5 million inheritance. I’m thinking about going back to get my MBA, but I also want to retire and move to a foreign country. Also just found out my wife’s been cheating on me with my brother. What should I name my first born child? 😀”
Went in for a scan yesterday because I was having spotting and cramping at 12 weeks. The OB saw fluid behind the baby’s neck and is referring us to see a high risk doctor immediately. NIPT was negative. I’m panicking. Have any of you been through this?
Moms specifically at Deloitte, I am 8 weeks pregnant and planning to tell the team right after July 4th weekend. I had a question on the administrative/procedural stuff - do I have to let anyone else outside or project team know? When do I have to start thinking about paper work? Who should I let know about the maternity leave?
Between work and family with a kid how do you find time to apply and prep for interviews? I’m stuck at consulting.
Has anyone here decided you don't want kids? Just turned 34 married for 13 years. I still have no desire to have kids. I am okay with this life but sometimes wonder if I would feel some emptiness down the road. Please share your experience.
Why do previous generations feel the need to belittle the hard work of younger people? My parents always insist they used to put in as many hours as I do when they were my age, but I know it’s not true because I was actually old enough to remember it! (They could afford having a kid. I can’t)
Would you take a new job that offers 5 weeks maternity leave and about 30% base comp increase or stay with current firm that offers 16weeks maternity? New company might require 12months of work to be eligible for maternity leave.
Moms, what is the standard etiquette and timing for your parents to come help out when you have a new born? I am due in April and we live in a small 2 bedroom apartment in NYC. Every one in the family wants to come to NYC and help when the baby is here and I’m grateful but I don’t want to get too overwhelmed trying to host people in this small space. I was thinking my parents could come for a couple weeks, leave and then my siblings can take turns? Thank you! Any advice will be appreciated
Q for folks who've worked at more than 1 big 4s. Which firm's culture did you like and why ? I like the people here but definitely need to switch for financial reasons. Serious replies only please.
With all the WFH and video conferencing going on, I hear Wal-Matt has noticed an increase of tops but not bottoms
I am new to MBB style case interviews and trying to prep for an interview with Bain soon (possibly with McK as well) . There are tons of books, articles, YouTube videos, etc. and I don't know where to start or which one is useful 🤯 can someone share their experience on how to plan interview prep for mbb?
Anyone able to comment on the qualtrics technical account manager role? Got an offer but it feels low and is lower than what I’m making now. I’ve heard great things about the company, and loved the people so struggling with my decision.
Just got told by managers that my performance hasn't met their expectations. High performer last year. Am I getting fired?
What’s etiquette for going to a happy hour (social distanced) for laid off coworkers? Was due to covid. My wife is going to one tomorrow and was wondering do you get a card or gift card?
My coach confirmed that associates at PwC will be promoted after 2 years instead of 3 going forward. Just like the other big 4
Someone remind me please, if I book a flight through Chase portal, my elite status will kick in vs. if I book a hotel through the portal I won’t get the points, correct?
Going home this weekend - what is the most time efficient (minimal disruption to work) way to get rapid COVID test?
Any tips on negotiating severance package? What’s typical package for a NY lay off? How do we maximize the money we receive? I’ve also read things on the internet that say “don’t sign it on the spot.”
DM for EY referral 😆
Folks, posting for a friend: Finance professional, took a break to set up a start up. Did it for 5 years. Did modestly well and sold it before returning to do an MBA. Contd:
Have there been lay-offs at your company due to Covid? Which roles have been more impacted? What are severance packages like? It’s been shocking to me and I’m wondering if there will be another round of lay offs this year at my company.
How do you get hired as a junior copywriter in this city? I’ve been trying since my internship ended pre-pandemic and apart from making my book better, I don’t have any more answers now than I did when I started.
Hey friends - I’m currently on a brief medical leave (~1 month) and my management has been contacting me quite regularly by phone and email without notice for different documentation and admin processes relating to the leave. It’s basically taking up as much time as my regular work. Not sure what is reasonable here as I would really like to focus on healing and just deal with it when I’m back…isn’t that the point? What are my rights here?
...I wonder what normal people feel in life. I wonder who I would have been if I weren’t so sick.
Any considerations when disclosing to the firm that your wife is pregnant? Debating when to share the news...
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