Hello fishes,
I have given interview at two organization in parallel. My expected ctc was same for both the companies. Now I have recieved offer letter from one organization(say A) and it's under processing in company B.
Since I have received one offer letter, should I go back to company B and inform them as my ECTC has now been increased.
But initially, I had no offer so I have given same CTC expectations.
Pleas suggest.
Happily in an open relationship. We love each other a lot. I understand it’s not for everyone but can work great if neither of you are traditional, possessive, or jealous. You have to have open communication and believe that sex can be making love or it can be just hooking up.
Pro
That’s not a historical open relationship. That’s just rampant cheating under the cover of darkness.
A modern open relationship is supposed to be honest and aboveboard, with all parties knowing what’s happening.
Conversation Starter
That was 150 years ago, so cut them some slack
I don’t know why would people be in open relations. I hate it. There is no real love there to me but just sex
I’m too afraid of HIV.
Chief
B1, if M1 said it’s an irrational fear it would indeed be acceptable. Or a number of other things...The issue I had is not the fear, but crossing a chasm from open relationship to HIV. It demonstrates an ignorance that I wish people would not pander to, for the sake of the community. It’s only slightly better than a heterosexual man saying he doesn’t want to hang out with a gay person because he might get HIV. An open relationship is not code for promiscuity or HIV. The question in my original post was not how people felt about promiscuity.
Having been in primarily monogamous relationships and a marriage my whole life - I am not sure I will ever be monogamous again. Seems really unrealistic and restrictive with no good reason and puts a lot of unnecessary pressure in the relationship... I am inherently polyamorous and I am sure I will figure out a way to make whatever it is that I have with various partners in the future - though right now I think most single folks are being spinsters anyway...