What do: this fit af dude keeps flirting with me at post-work drinks, like squeezing my arms, joking that we're going out and asking me to show him round my neighborhood. Problem is, he has a gf -

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In my experience, it’s just a guy who’s super confident in his sexuality.

Straight guys with this level of confidence are extremely hard to find and make incredible friends, take advantage of the opportunity to initiate an incredible friendship!

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Enjoy it. A drinking buddy who's sexy and straight will get you drinks from bartenders at gay bars

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Is this a thing straight dudes do nowadays or what's going on?

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Shoot your shot

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I have some very good straight friends who are exactly like that. It happens when you click with somebody, enjoy a good friendship. Get back to us if he kisses you and we can give you some advice ;-)

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Lol all my straight guy friends are like this. Especially the gym ones. They’re just super confident in their sexuality. Plus the gym ones, that’s part of their humor and confidence in how physique looks without making it awkward. But most likely, nothing is gonna come out of it.

That being said, if they’re not a gym rat, possibly gay. Lol

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You have maybe a 1 in 10 chance there’s more going on. Enjoy time with the guy but don’t obsess about him

Play a game of chicken and say first one out is gay. Either way you win!

I am like that. They’re just confident in sexuality.

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