What do you do for a sibling that is lost with their career (28 and trying to find a new direction) and dipping into a depression? I don’t know how to help and it kills me...

For once, JUST ONCE, it would be nice to have a hot team member on a project.

How much should I bargain with HR for Accenture Kualalumpur for Level 7 ?

I am about to meet my bf's parents who r frm different cast- culture all together. I m Hindu Rajput n they are Marathi Brahims.Although his parents said they are fine with marriage but i can sense they are not actually happy. They are taking it ahead just for the sake of it.Does this culture difference matters a lot after marriage.??
In-laws not liking me will be a problem after marriage.? What should i really focus on?? Is getting married be good idea in such scenerio ?

Hello. I have a final round interview for Business Intelligence Engineer position. My final interview is scheduled for 4.5 hours long. That’s long. I know I need to follow the STAR. Besides that, what should I expect and be prepared for?

The previous round covered SQL whiteboard and few behavioral questions.

I appreciate your help and insights. Thanks.

Just received an offer from a competitor firm for higher role & 30% salary bump. I have a pending LCA with my current company. Will I face any problems with H1B transfer? Would it be wise to move now?

Hi fishes,

Is it okay if I say no to citi after accepting their offer and BGV is done. I have received a better offer from another organisation.
TIA

Does anyone have leads for a recent MPH Epidemiology grad with 0-2 YOE to get into consultant roles in Healthcare/life sciences?

Second question: what sort of work experiences are companies like flatiron and komodo health looking for to work in RWE/heor? I'm not sure how to leverage Epidemiology to get into that space :(

Hi, we at Nice are looking for Oracle techno functional person who has working knowledge of oracle ebs and can learn new technologies as well. Here work is implementation and support as well. You will get exposure for full implementation cycle starting from requirement gathering till providing the support. Chances of learning new technologies is also good as Oracle is integrated to multiple technologies like Concur.
Work location will be Pune.
And hybrid mode

Have there actually been any US layoffs? I have heard this should not happen til next month.

Can anyone suggest what's the interview process for Amazon in Tamil Nadu, Karnataka or Andhra Pradesh for a Data Engineer role.

What technologies should I be familiar with in order to crack the interview. Is data structures and algorithms a must learn to crack a data engineer role?

I want to prepare for data engineer interviews, I'm currently well experienced in Python, SQL, Informatica and familiar with ADF and I have 1+ years of experience in the same role.

Where did you exit consulting to and what is the work like?

I just need some Brugal rum, Aventura or Romeo Santos songs on repeat all night…

What do managers (particularly business technology managers) use to track projects and tasks? Particularly if you have ALOT of them with your teams? JIRA? MS Teams ? Trello? Other?

For the past couple of months I've been tracking everything I eat. Now I want to get a better understanding of how my eating habits affect my body, any books you rec to start with?

Just sold my car to carmax for much more than I think it’s worth. I have no idea how they’re making money on these purchases

Looking for a referral in companies in Hyderabad, India

Tech Stack: SQL, PL/SQL, ETL, Azure, Alteryx, Dataiku, Python (basics), Tableau, Viz.

Total YOE: ~4 years.

Any books/self help materials for someone who is constantly worrying (and waste a lot of unnecessary time)? E.g. No matter if i pass or fail an interview, there is always something to worry about. The worrying/anxiety multiplies when I proceeded further in the interview stages. Now that I signed the offer and is pending background checks, my anxiety is off the roof as it itches closer to my starting date.

After 8 years literally working 7/7, I did crash... I woke up in the morning... And I could even not anwser a email... I did quit my job, and it took me 6 months to recover a bit...

Finally meeting with a dietician who specializes in eating disorders to take steps to get my binge eating under control. Feeling all kinds of (mostly scared) emotions. Would appreciate any good vibes!

Has anyone (or anyone you know personally) quit their job because your agency required return to office and you/they just can’t do that again? I keep waiting for the quitting wave to start (as predicted by every publication on the internet). I only know of one person. But I can’t deal with the idea of being chained to a desk at a not-my-place anymore.

Recommendations for good therapists in NYC/Brooklyn?

How do you handle loneliness during a break up? My girlfriend has one foot out of the door and no matter how hard I try, I think she’s done. I feel so lonely and I’m so scared to be on my own again.

I have long moments where I feel super alone and I feel like I’m in the wrong place. Then at some point I always realize that it’s all in my head and I look objectively and I feel better.

I take antidepressants but I feel especially exhausted & depressed right when it turns Sept/Oct, like completely zapped of energy. Anyone else deal with seasonal affective disorder? How do you cope?

Just finished reading One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest. It was triggering but in a way that helped me confront some issues that I couldn’t even tell my own therapist about. I highly recommend it.

Zoloft. Just when on it for anxiety. Who can share about their experience, good or bad? At the moment, I have ironic anxiety about what it will do to me.

A shout out for the podcast The Hilarious World of Depression. Interviews with comedians, musicians and writers who suffer with depression or other mental illness.

I have been feeling so much physical anxiety (not sleeping, tight chest, shortness of breath, etc) about going to work tomorrow. Any advice? All suggestions welcome.

Guys. I’m so. effing. depressed.

Long term solutions (therapy, exercise, nutrition, hobbies, etc.) aside, how do you power through depression and get work done in the short term? Any tips?

Manager made it clear he isn’t happy with how I’ve been doing some of my work lately. His messages to me instantly brought up a whole mental can of worms. I felt myself physically having a panicked reaction, and I realize it’s bringing up issues I had with a past boss. How do I get past this? I have journaled, changed jobs, etc., but these same types of (micro)managers are everywhere, and I can’t keep quitting and moving agencies.

has anyone been placed on a PIP after signing an ADA? i’m only 2 weeks into my accommodation...

What's the best mood tracking app? I just got on meds for bipolar depression for the first time so recommendations would be appreciated!

I never talk about this but I feel like I have to get it out because I am at an all time low. I am about a year and a half into my career. I’m older and came from a diverse background that involved my

Has anyone experienced blame shifting? In my romantic relationship we’re in sync 97% of the time but if I’ve constructive criticism, the dynamic flips, so I apologize to deescalate. I can’t ask for changes much. Like “next time you need spreadsheet help, try to plz anticipate it & not need it at 10 at night?” I’m reading that criticism’s perceived as a narcissist injury, oy! Years of therapy give me empathy but I’m discouraged. My partner’s amazing, but doesn’t have the tools. How can I help?

I had a recent loss in my immediate family. I feel like my boss does not believe me. He knew the family member had been in bad shape for weeks. Why do I feel the need to justify the loss to him?

Anyone else working so hard all the time and managing such anxiety about work, that the days/weeks/months, even year has completely blurred together? This am I found myself wondering what season it is

I bite and pick the hell out of my lips until they bleed. I've been doing this for the past 15 years and don't know how to stop.