What do you do when you hit one of those times where the project work is just so terrible (like at least 14 hr days bad) & on top of that nothing else in life is going right either & (cont).

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cont. ... and there’s no one that you can’t turn to for support/to even talk to about it 😔

^ ** no one that you can

Do you have a therapist? My therapist helped me process some things, and my dog kept me company. Highly recommend both

Pull the trigger. My work life and personal life have both sucked. I self decided to re-lo back to home state with friends/family. Unsure if ill get fired and dont care. Gotta have something in life that makes you happy. Best of luck OP ❤

pull the trigger meaning life changes!!

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