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What do you do when you’re a young looking minority VP with a baby face? Do you treat clients and internal stakeholders differently (e.g. alter your personality)

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Be really good at your job. If you have the answers when others don’t, they will forget the rest

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I deepen my voice and try to put on a super serious face. Basically anything that doesn’t seem cute. I might start putting on some makeup too...

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Change the make up a little bit is the easiest way when facing the people you know for the first time. I don’t like it but is lower the cost of changing people’s impression later in time. But for those who know your true capabilities, just be yourself.

Dress for success. First impressions are everything.

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