What first attracts you? Looks or personality? What % as well? I would say for me 90% personality 10% looks

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Well if you say first attracts it’s always 💯 LEWKS for me. How can you know what their personality is like before you get to know them. The first feeling of attention is always looks

Now when it comes to settling down in a relationship with someone. Both are very important. I’m currently dating someone with an amzinggg body face and personality. It’s perfect. My ex however checked every box for me except the fact that I wasn’t that attracted to him. That didn’t last. Can’t have one without the other. It’s 50/50 for me

Keep in mind. Were also hypersexual. I think we do the business 6 times a week. Multiple times a day. So attraction is important. …sex fades though…idk.

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📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠💯

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10% luck
20% skill
15% concentrated power of will
5% pleasure
50% pain

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100% reason to remember the name

As M2 said above

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69% looks
6.9% personality
28% academic achievemants

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🧐🤔🙇🏻‍♂️

Hi, GUYS! 🙄

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First attracts - 90% looks, 10% personality. But to actually seriously date this person it’s gotta flip the other way

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Well I guess I would have to define “first”. First time I meet them? I would have to say personality because when some guys open their mouth and start talking attraction goes to zero, no matter how they look 😅

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Yes!

101% looks

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was gonna call u out for being a shallow lil visual furby, but turns out I was the fool n u was the gkneeus.

🧐🤔👍
This man is truly a ballsdeep human saint
He's reached xxxual nirvana—he's achieved a state where he sees the visual and the personality as "one." He looks at your looks but goes deeper still...to look at your heart. He's reached deep into his pants and realized that while looks are hard to change personality is even harder to change, so why make them compete? He's embraces them beyond fully......transcending from a basic 💯 to a supermathural 101%

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Would say 80% personality and 20% looks

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82% Looks

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70% looks , 30% personality at first.

Then personality becomes an important factor on whether it continues

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50% looks
30% personality
20% what they do for a living/ambitions.

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I could objectively look at someone and know that they’re attractive/hot, but if their personality sucks it absolutely does nothing for me sexually.

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This! Yeah objectively I can find a lot of men and women attractive, has nothing to do with chemistry though. Now attractive people probably get more chances to show off their personality because people are more likely to hit on them

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40% ambitions, 40% personality, 10% past achievements, 10% looks

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P1, what do you look for in a partner?

Definitely looks at first (90%). Won’t be interested in finding out more about personality if there is no physical attraction

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It’s looks…you won’t know someone’s personality when you first meet them.

They could show that unattractive personality within the first few minutes of meeting, but physical attraction is what starts the conversation (both IRL and in apps)

80% looks and 80% personality 🧐

🧐that’s why I’m single

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