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What is most stupid/foolish thing you’ve ever done for love? For me it was starting the green card application for my long distance boyfriend. 😩🥴🤧

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Let's see.... Avoided conflict ☑️ Believed what was obviously a lie ☑️ Compromised my boundaries ☑️ Deliberately ignored signs ☑️ Early engagement ☑️ Forgave too easily/quickly Glossed over painful realities ☑️ Held onto misguided truths ☑️ Isolated from friends/family ☑️ Juggled too many emotions ☑️ Kept quiet when I shouldn't ☑️ Lost myself ☑️ Moved in together too quickly ☑️ Never acknowledged my truth(s) ☑️ Operated with blind trust ☑️ Promised too much ☑️ Queried too little ☑️ Resented but said nothing ☑️ Said "I do" ☑️ Took myself for granted ☑️ Used alcohol to medicate ☑️ Valued my partner more than myself ☑️ Wasted years of my life ☑️ eXpected a different outcome ☑️ Yes'd when I should have no'd ☑️ Zero accountability held where needed ☑️ BUT... Lots of therapy, patience, and introspection and 8+ years of sobriety later and I'm a stronger, wiser, and self-aware(r) person. Life's a road trip...cleaning all the garbage out of the car makes for a much more pleasant journey!


No, but maybe I should copy it into a note for future reference. 😊


I bet my husband half my assets that I’d love him forever


No prenup?

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Let his momma move in twice🤦‍♀️😂😂😂😂


No she got her own place after 9 months, she is leaving the state next month to live with her sister.


Almost changed my religion


MSMS: I would say it's a tool to govern the poor and masses but no one wants to hear facts


I also dated a girl for 6 years who wouldn’t go down on me. Never do that again.


🧐list be too long




Changed my major for them


Makes sense

Traveled illegally across the world during covid border restrictions (via a loophole lol). He let me do that and then broke up with me a week after I got back home !!!!


Illegal travel sex tastes the best

Believe she loved me back




Not after we realized we weren’t in love! 😂 🙏

Wanted to marry him 🥴


Hehe was he so bad?

Travelled half way across the world


Anytime A1, happy to support

I did an MBA program to stay where my girlfriend was.


Atleast the degree stayed with you 🥳


Stop being single.


Should have put him in jail…

Got engaged

Never married. I called her bullshit before the end lol


Why was this stupid, OP? Was he using you to come over?

90 day fiancé?

That was just plain rude. 😒

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