What is something toxic you experienced in your family growing up but didn’t realize it until later? And how are you processing it?

How do you all take care of things outside of work? The last thing I want to do after being hyper-organized at work is figuring out my budget or retirement plan or scrubbing the bathtub or figuring out what to buy at the grocery or planning a vacation. I feel so burnt out I can only just sleep on weekends and can’t bring myself to go out or even do basic self care. I feel bad putting this all on my husband and how would I even have the energy to raise kids??

I don’t understand how someone can lie about loving you for 6 months. We were together for almost a year (broke up a week before our anniversary). I said I love you first and he said it back. I asked for more reassurance last month with saying I love you more often. Now all of a sudden he said he didn’t know if he loved me and that love meant marriage for him. Okay well great thanks for telling me this now, 6 months after it was initially exchanged. I don’t understand how he could do that.

Anybody here that few up in household where mom or dad had an affair? How did it affect your romantic relationships/beliefs/outcomes in adulthood?

What advice would you have wished your young selves to know?

Here 28 weeks pregnant and tired of hearing you would need to do this for better lactation, you would have sleepless nights. Can a new mother not figure out on her own with the right scientific knowledge ? Is it important to go by what your parents , in-laws or known ones tell you ?

What is the easiest, fastest and cheapest way to get divorce if we both are ready to get done with it asap
There are No kids from the marriage and any other financials will be easier to settle

Any white males on here dating Asian females, specifically Chinese? I’m a white male with a Chinese girlfriend and I’m a bit worried about meeting the parents (they are in China; we are in Australia). They’ve said to my girlfriend that they’d prefer her to date Chinese so they are able to communicate with her boyfriend, but other than that it seems ok. Does anyone have experience in this situation? How did it turn out?

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

Hello friends,

My spouse is looking for a change in manual testing.She is looking for work from home (wfh)opportunities. Actually we have a 3.5yr old ,nursery class going kid. I sometimes feel very bad whenever he returns from school and misses his mumma lot.
After marriage and pregnancy, she already had a career gap. If again going to take a gap that might be a career problem.
The solution we are looking for WFH opportunity where she can manage her motherhood loves as well as professional lfy

Binge watched Looking over the weekend and my heart is broken because of the ending. I hate unhappy endings and they make me depressed for days.

Would you be upset if your SO showed up at your house without an invitation but knew you were going to be in the neighborhood?Even if you weren't expecting them, would you leave them outside knowing they were there?

How friendly are people in ATL/how open are they to making friends? Just moved from Chicago to Dallas with my family and there's a huge cultural difference in terms of how friendly people are.

Got out of a toxic relationship that I KNOW was toxic but my heart is still heavy and I want him back. Did anyone experience this? How did you overcome it?

what are the biggest red flags in a distance relationship? I would say being spotty on communication is the biggest one for me.

People with kids, how much do you spend on daycare?

What is the best way to encourage kids still in school to pursue accounting? I'm talking like Sophomores/Juniors/Seniors in high school and maybe first-year of college kids. My daughter's teacher asked if I could come in for HS career/college fair day and I'm trying to put some stuff together. She said I can't embarrass her so "it can't be boring."

Life is in a weird phase right now. Major breakup 6 months back, best friend moved out of the country, and I will be moving to Seattle from NYC for a new job (I love NY). The job is something I have..

Made a comment about a specific city being good to raise kids in bc of accessibility to good schools/colleges, and SO freaked out because he thinks I’m trying to keep him in one spot (both of work in this city, my family is here and his is not). He thinks I’m trying to stay close to my family and isolate him from his, which is not my intention at all. Told me it was a big red flag and he hasn’t talked to me since. What should I do?

We had new neighbors move in across the street a few months ago. A couple with a child of about 7 years old who clearly has a cognitive disability of some sort (I suspect autism). I’m becoming concerned about him. He seems to spend a good amount of time alone outdoors. He often flags down passers by to chat. I thought perhaps his parents kept an eye on him through the window, but today he was hanging on a neighbor’s front stoop for a good half hour. I went over to talk to him and see if (con’t)

Best resources to become stronger in data analytics?

I start my new job in two weeks

I’ve lost 70 pounds since the beginning of COVID (March 2020)! So proud of myself! I’ve never felt this great, physically and mentally!

What is the easiest, fastest and cheapest way to get divorce if we both are ready to get done with it asap
There are No kids from the marriage and any other financials will be easier to settle

Any white males on here dating Asian females, specifically Chinese? I’m a white male with a Chinese girlfriend and I’m a bit worried about meeting the parents (they are in China; we are in Australia). They’ve said to my girlfriend that they’d prefer her to date Chinese so they are able to communicate with her boyfriend, but other than that it seems ok. Does anyone have experience in this situation? How did it turn out?

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

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What is base and total comp for (1) Consultant 2, and (2) PL in Toronto?

Currently located in UK, thinking about move to North America as my SO got job offers in Toronto (pref.) &US Midwest

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What is Littler’s WFH policy? Do you ever foresee them going back in the office full time?

It’s so hot, and instead of answering recruiters emails/calls I now am just trying to survive. I answered 3 calls randomly yesterday. 2 were crappy. One was a $87k offer with apple through Tata consulting services— which idk if that’s shitty or not. It’s “remote till Covid ends”

Woke up today and tech mahindra recruiter from last week wants to put me through a technical interview at $110k for a role in Redmond WA for an iOS dev role @ $110k. I think it’s also “remote till Covid ends” but idk 🤞

I have been waiting for a month for offer from pwc ac... everytime i call they first said mapping is pending ..now they are saying we are uploading in workday. Any one here can u plsase help me underatand how many days still before i get the actual offer

Thoughts on $170K base +$20K annual bonus for a sourcing/procurement role at a F500 in the DC area? Also a $10K sign on bonus.

Hi all, I’m a BM… but I have really been looking into a career switch, something more like a WFH job. But I would love to keep my salary or bump it …
Any advise on which direction to take?

Amex has resumed its referral program. If anyone want to get a card with NIL fee for Year1, please dm, I'll share the link.

GDS fishes.

Do we have collective disconnect in EY as well?

Looking for a Deloitte or pwc referral

howdy fellow fish, anyone at Gucci willing to refer for a junior insights analyst role? :-)

Honestly I cringe when I read “I got my dream job at the Big4” from new college graduates. Those same ones are the ones on here now complaining heavily about said dream job. 🥴 . Sorry I’m just being honest.

Every time I hear golden hour I think of golden showers 🙉

My dog turns 12 and it depresses me that she’s getting older. Just had a sobbing session at the thought of losing her. She’s been by side throughout my most difficult adult life moments (divorce, cross-country moves, different jobs, toxic relationships, etc). I know I should treasure each moment, but the inevitable will eventually come and that just breaks my heart. 😥

How many people in this bowl are virgins? State your gender and age

I am really bad with money. I don’t rack up debt, but I don’t rack up savings, either. Any advice on how to get my spending under control mentally?

Unpopular opinion.

They should make an anime bout Jeff Bezos n feature Elon musk as his rival

Lol please tell me I’m not alone in this. I can WFH and not eat all day and my stomach is nice and calm. As soon I go into the office, at 11am my stomach is like “lemme embarrass you in front of these people and start making these feed me growls” 😩😩😩😭😭😭😭

Thoughts on the Obi Wan Kenobi finale???

My best friend set up a date with me and a guy who’s a crazy multi-millionaire and I’ve been leaving him on delivered all day because he sent me a nude on the first day of us talking… and that’s just soooooo boring 😩 Like been there, done that, what’s new 😩

I just read a book called The Midnight Library. Fiction, about a woman who kills herself and finds an in-between state where she gets to explore the infinite other paths her life *might* have taken based on all the choices she made during her life (to end her promising swimming career, to quit her high school band, to dump her boyfriend). She had to choose in the in-between place if she wanted any of those other lives instead of her “root” life, and she could choose to survive.