What is the best way to attract a new mate? I got out of a 7 year relationship (he was cheating on me for half of it) and I’m so confused on where to even start. I have a therapist and working on my trust issues - but I have self confidence issues. I’ve been burned for being ‘unattractive’. But I’ve seen girls that are objectively more unattractive than me have mates. So it must be a confidence issue? Those girls seem to glow while I am so sad. Or it’s the guys I go on dates with?

Hi, I'm new here, and I didn't know there was a dating feature but it seems cool.

25M here. What's a good approach to asking out females in their 30s & 40s? Looking to avoid coming off either too forward or bashful. Thank you!

Hope everyone is doing well. As we get closer to the end of COVID, I’d like to welcome everyone to post on this thread if you are looking for a tennis buddy. Feel free to list your location and level.

33f, tall looking for like minded Christian male

My boyfriend is texting his best friend's girlfriend. He openly says "oh i texted her about x" to me and I believe him...but my concern is that they're going to start some sort of flirtationship. She's some sort of model and has even told her boyfriend that my boyfriend is funny whereas she says her boyfriend is obnoxious. Is this something to worry about? We're not in a great space right now so Idk what to think.

I want to hit up a guy I went to college with (~4 years ago). He was trying to pursue me back then but I didn’t want anything serious. now I’ve been thinking about the “what if.” Would it be weird to?

So like, what’s the rule on dating apps, males always have to like the woman’s picture first since it’s about the chase? I find it inappropriate to like a guy’s profile even tho I find him attractive.

Any single professionals in/will be in Las Vegas for Christmas? Travelling solo 45 F single and in need of like minded company. What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.

If a guy stopped responding to me mid convo, would it be okay to maybe message him again in a month or so? Don’t want to double message as I don’t know him that well

Has anyone’s depression affected their dating ability?

Where is the best place to watch football on Sundays and meet a single guy in his late 20s to mid 30s?

How do you interpret a guy watching all of your insta stories basically within 30 mins of posting them, and ‘liking’ them frequently. For example, I was at a wedding last weekend and posting photos til like 5 am- he watched every single one almost instantly

Is it just me or other people have also seen people hooking around near cricket ground in Infosys Pune campus.
In the afternoon and night shifts obviously..

Anyone want to meet up for a happy hour this week?

Tall single male in nyc, any female fish want to chat

Hi, I am looking for a male single occupancy in 2bhk/3bhk in a gated society in Hinjewadi phase 1/2/3 or wakad. (2bhk/3bhk empty flats work too as I can find flatmates later). Move in date - asap
Vegetarian preferred. Please share leads if any.

34M. I am a tall athletic man. Ladies do you find tall men to be attractive?

Women looking to hook up only: what’s a better flex, a guy living in west village or hudson yards? Told a girl I lived in HY (which I do) and she instantly asked for my number.

Since half the bowl is single lol I’m curious what exactly are you guys/gals looking for in a SO? Wondering why people have a hard time finding someone

Have we actually made any significant advancements toward developing nuclear fusion reactors, or is it still a pipe dream?

Is ey gds going to give mid year increment in Feb this year too ?

Got a permit to hike half dome this summer— Any advice on hiking it? Things to pack that you might have overlooked? We’re camping at the North Pines campground the night before and after

Have tech allocation test on 5th Aug, joining as a fresher in CSD role. Can anyone tell what to expect in that?

Also have heard from people if I’ll use C++ in test they will give me C sharp and .net. Can anyone confirm this?

What happens to remaining paid leaves and sick leaves after year end, that is 31st Dec. Do they lapse or get added to next year's leaves or is it compensated?

Do you think it’s best to do your first mock GMAT totally cold? I’m fine on verbal but there are some quant questions I am completely lost on, haven’t done some of this stuff for nearly a decade.

Kinda worried I’m going be discouraged if my mock is hot garbage, even though I’m a good studier and good test taker :/

Does RSM allow for Megabackdoor contributions?

Hi ladies! First gen Latina corporate lawyer here. I’ll be relocating from DC to NYC soon. Recognizing how hard it is to find diversity in the workplace even in the most diverse cities, I’ve joined this bowl in hopes of contributing to building a community among my fellow Latina lawyers. Happy to chat virtually or grab a coffee anytime.

Trying to convince a brand to do some good in the world. What are some segments of the population that have been disproportionately affected by COVID? The more specific the better

Where do people leaving FAANG companies go to in Canada? I’m looking for a change but it seems like a lot of the Canadian based companies pay half of what I’m currently making. Who outside of FAANG / LinkedIn/ snap / Twitter pays well (I.e senior mgr / director level above $300k)

When it comes time for me to write my dissertation, the only way I can actually write it is if someone buys me a grant so that I can afford to make the time to write it!

Is there someone planning to take the New York Bar next July 2021?

South Asian Straight Male, 3.7 UG GPA, 750 GMAT... Do I have a chance at M7?

Working as a Senior Accountant at Vanguard with my CPA; 3 YOE, Greater Philadelphia area. Took this job to give accounting one more try and while I don’t regret it I’m bored. Anything in finance more challenging/less box-checking? People have recommended public but I’m not interested in audit/tax or travel.

I remember the first time I held a gun in firing practice when I was a recruit. Like it was yesterday. Does anyone else have a super vivid memory like this?

Roughly how much is the head of marketing and PR making at your healthcare system?

Anyone have a spouse/partner who is a picky eater?

I grew up with two french bodybuilders for parents and enjoy super minimally seasoned, whole, unprocessed foods (yes, we were the weird house for not having goldfish as kids), and I live with my handsome man from a beautiful Mexican family who cook with many flavors but also eat out a LOT.

He is okay about my cooking as it is 90% veggies, but some nights he’s blunt that he’s picky, and I whine about going out. Thoughts?

Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

Why do women get judged for their clothes?

Is this group still popping or??

Every time there’s a little conflict I can’t handle it. How do I overcome this and get better at addressing it?

Had a big fight with my gf last night (we live together), looking for advice. She’s a first gen immigrant and her niece recently returned from their home country. She was staying with her brother in law but he’s been drinking a lot so she felt unsafe. She came to crash at my place which I was fine with for a couple of nights. Yesterday she let me know that her niece needs to stay two weeks. She didn’t rly ask she just told me - which rly pissed me off. Am I wrong for wanting to be consulted?

Anyone ever gone through a separation with their spouse and have 3 small kids (under 6) in the equation? My spouse asked me for one tonight 🥲

I thought that this space was for search a relationship 😅🤣😅🤣😅

So something crazy happened to me last week. I was at the airport, and as usual on call after call. The check in line was going ridiculously slowly and at some point turned threw my hands up in frustration while looking around to find another place to check in. In doing so, I catch the eye of the behind me. He smiles and says something. I just sort of nod and carry on with my call. After that, he keeps trying to talk to me, eventually I got to the check, say bye and leave. At security… tbc

It’s been 6 years but still feel lots of jealousy about my ex and his wife. I’m married as well now, and I don’t have feelings for him, but can’t help but want the worst for them or for my life to be better. Anyone else feel like this? What did you do to get over it?

For the people in relationships/marriage in which the woman is making significantly more than the man, how have you fared so far? Would like to know your thoughts

If a guy stopped responding to me mid convo, would it be okay to maybe message him again in a month or so? Don’t want to double message as I don’t know him that well

How do you interpret a guy watching all of your insta stories basically within 30 mins of posting them, and ‘liking’ them frequently. For example, I was at a wedding last weekend and posting photos til like 5 am- he watched every single one almost instantly

3 weeks after me and the girl I was seeing ended things, she posts a pic from the wedding she had invited me to, with a new guy captioned “Babe”. Trust your gut folks, it’s always right.

M, 44. After 21 years of marriage, my wife and I signed divorce papers with no contest. We have two adult daughters together, 18 and 21 So no child support, no alimony, and I make $170k at 44. I recently moved out of the marital house into an apartment,m. What should my next steps look like at this point? Do I need counseling?