What is the best wedding favor you ever received? I have no idea what to get that isn’t a useless thing people will throw away!

Thread to discuss TC, yoe and level for H1B holders. I can go first 192K, 15 yoe and M3. MCOL city.

True Crime Fans: what are some good true crime docs/shows to watch right now?

Wore my new North Face sweater out on a hike today. Actually really like it as a base layer. I think it was some great swag.

Cut from a project, covid19 impact. If you need experience, pm, diverse industry, technical and business.

Anybody have experience with Lending club or P2P Lending? It seems like it could be a little risky but think it may be a way to diversify some of my money instead of keeping it all tied to the stock market.

Just got some Poit Dhubh 21 whilst visiting Skye. That stuff is pretty hard to find in store where I live. Such a great blend. Haven’t had it in years🥃

First years: is it just me? I really, really don’t want to fuck up but why do I keep screwing up…

This company ensured slaves.

Does anyone love/ have fun with an 8th or 7th grade lesson they would like to share?

Hey anybody Joining on 28th December 2022 Pune location?

hi fishes,
I am working in infosys at 8.5 lpa and holding an offer from JMI ( Jean Martin System) for investment banking analyst at 10 lpa. But I have heard some negative reviews about JMI regarding job security and growth. Can somebody provide insights or share any review on the same ? And also answer if the salary offered is okay for a fresher in these industry?

New in town, where do I go to meet people (for friends and dating)?

Where do you draw the line between just being driven, versus being on the hedonic treadmill

How is the bank of america account in Wipro . How is the wlb and work load in Wipro as general. Do they have good project on new tech? Which on to choose Wipro or Mindtree

Hi, anyone working at Spotify? Need referral!

Do any of the top consulting firms have analytics roles (preferably not super technical) that don’t require weekly travel?

I dream of getting hit by a taxi or nyc bus on my way to work almost daily just so I get a free pass to not come to work for a while

Did you do any self care the night before your wedding to prepare for the big day?! 🤍

Any NYC DOC recommendation? Everyone is talked to is trying to charge me 3k+. I already know what I need and going to do my own timeline. I just need someone to execute

We just picked up our wedding rings and I don’t wanna take mine off! I keep wearing it around the house 😍

Trying to decide who to invite from work. My office is about 45 people total—50-50 attorneys and support staff. I know which associates I’m inviting and know that the others won’t care. But struggling with partners and support staff. I work with some but am close to others that I don’t work with. Reality is that I can’t invite them all but don’t want to offend anyone

Has anyone planned a destination wedding in Portugal before? Did you use a wedding planning company? Any recommendations? How much did it cost?

We’re looking to do a wedding reception (but will get married officially in a NYC courthouse first) for about 80 guests in fall 2022 with live music, open bar, family style dining, overlooking the ocean (but not on the beach).

Not sure where to start - it’s information overload on google so looking for any recommendations!

How much are you paying for your wedding cake? We’re not doing grooms cake and have 70 guests.

Did you send a save the date to everyone in your guest list or just certain people?

Hi everyone - We are thinking of changing our wedding photographer after unsatisfactory engagement photos and unsatisfactory communication (unresponsive after multiple attempts). We paid a $450 retainer which we know will be not refundable. However, we are not sure about other liability as we read our contract and found these 2 clauses (in comments). Please advise! Definitely not happy with her and would like to switch to another one but also want to make sure we make the right move. Thanks!

What's your floral colors? I am thinking about white + dusty blue with bridesmaids wearing navy. Want to get some inspirations of matching bridesmaid dress color vs. mismatching

Anyone else having trouble finding shoes for the wedding?!?

Hi all — can anyone recommend a nice guest book where folks can place photos from the photo booth? I need something that has enough for about 90 people to write something and paste/tape their photo booth pic. Would prefer something minimalist for the cover.

Any inspo for ladies with short hair (chin length) lob? Not sure if i want an updo, but I do want a veil!

Word of advice - If you're considering spending the extra money on a quality vendor, do it. Several of my vendors did not care about making my day special, and they ruined the experience. Budgets are important, but make sure you weigh the pros and cons. I'm stuck with that memory forever.

Prenup- do we absolutely need lawyers (each)? Or does one of those online services with standard docs suffice?
We don’t think our situation is complicated- neither of us own a home/cars, but have some investments, both expect some inheritance eventually, and both get a chunk of equity from work that we’d like to call out. We’ve already discussed in depth how we want to split things.

Trying to see if we need a photo booth at the event. Thoughts? Is it worth it or can it be skipped?

Hello! Does anyone here have recommendations for a hair and makeup person/company in NYC? Thanks!

Getting married in the Caribbean end of February. Going absolutely nuts with the range of my RSVP emails. Young people “can’t wait, so excited!!!!”, old people “too afraid to travel”. If it were in January I’d prob postpone, but I kinda feel like end of Feb might be ok? And who’s to say if I move it there won’t be another variant. FWIW planning to require rapid tests, the country requires vaccines everywhere, etc but people are either v comfortable or not at all. 😑 no q, just commiserating

What is everyone tipping each vendor? Percent/dollar amount appreciated.