What is your greatest reward for being clean and sober??

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No hangovers or regret. I cannot stress this enough.

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That morning after embarrassment 🤦🏻‍♀️

Being alive and still married to my lovely wife!

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Honestly, everything is better. I’m happier, great my family better, more efficient at work. Literally every phase of my life is better, which is what makes it crazy that resisting is still hard.

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Meant to write “treat my family better”

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For me Peace of Mind
I have serenity today

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This is a good one. Can’t be any peace of mind. Think for me it’s that but also having access to a network/solution for when times get tough (because they will) that I have tools.

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Having my family back and a job

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A clear mind and the understanding that all feelings and situations are temporary.

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I’m able to handle hard times with much more stability, neutrality, and composure. I find myself to be much less emotional than the average person and I don’t take things personally☺️

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Being there for myself and kids, because I am sober I can show up on all platforms of my life and kids. Full of gratitude ❤️

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Peace of mind

The ability to be present, grateful, to forgive, and to be of service by passing this gift on to the next alcoholic.

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