What would be average or realistic to start dating after a break up of a 3yrs relationship? She broke up 6 months ago. Seeing a girl giving mixed signal for 5 months already. Haven’t dated yet..

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I would let the person guide that conversation. We all heal/process at different speeds. If this person is talking to you that's a good sign. But I would ask them how they feel about your current relationship and how they would feel about moving forward.

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I don’t understand your post. Is the woman you’re dating the one who ended a three year relationship six months ago and giving you mixed signals? Who hasn’t dated yet?

Talking in what kind of capacity?

Do you know if they are even interested in you. Sounds like you’re on the sideline waiting for someone who may or may not be interested in you even after they’re ready. Are you dating others?

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