What would you do if you were out on a parental leave for 12 weeks? (Besides taking care of your newborn) Taking ideas!

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I thought taking care of a newborn maxes out all available time and energy!

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Ok I was semi joking/making a lighthearted comment and yes I understand all humans are different 😂

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Catch up on video games!

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Make freezer meals for when your leave is over. Your future self will thank you.

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I planned my meals and got into a good diet plan not with the goal of loosing weight but with the goal of healthy balanced diet with optimal cheat meals sprinkled. Understood how my body reacts to various food types and boundaries of moderation. Optimal balanced schedule for yourself your sleep and your baby's schedule. Read books you are never going to get another time like this. Cook your heart out, I did because I believe in expression of love thru food for my child and getting my skills up for when they start eating solids. Take a vacation with your SO, We took 2. Most importantly disconnect from work

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Look for another job?

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Start a company

Sleep.

Do you have childcare options during that time?

I’m keen to get in the best health possible (sleep, diet, exercise) given the circumstances of having a newborn.

Take a nap every minute you can. You will need it.

Party like it’s 1999?

You won’t sleep. Try to take a shower every day and eat something. wonder what the hell you’ve done. This goes whether you birthed that baby or not.

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