What’s a good alternative to clubbing on the nights of weekends? Find myself not having fun when I go out, and ending up feeling shitty the next day is even worse. I feel boring when i just stay home and watch movies all the time so looking for other options besides going out.

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How old are you, OP?

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You need a more diverse friend group

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Literally anything

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Go to a cool new restaurant, go to a concert/theatre performance/movie premier/comedy show, consume marijuana and paint (or any other creative activity), go out and drink non-alcoholic/mocktails, try out a random new activity that could become your hobby, go to bed early and wake up early and see how the early birds live in the morning, find a really good recipe and good company and cook a nice meal, go to the gym and enjoy the empty machines/weights, go on a weekend getaway someplace, call your mom (she misses you, probably).

You are essentially asking what to do when you have free time, and there are virtually endless answers to that question.

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Idk. I stay home and watch movies. Do interesting things during the day that make you not boring. If you aren't tired and hungover you can get out your front door and do lots of stuff.

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You feel boring or bored? There is a big difference.
Boring is someone/something that makes others bored. Are you boring? If yes, don’t worry, there are other boring people around that would enjoy your company. And if you are bored, there is Grindr and similar apps, everybody is bored on them when you ask how they are doing.
Btw, you didn’t say what kind of activities you like, just that you don’t like going out to clubs. You could go bowling, play cards, have friends home for board games, go to a restaurant, etc.

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