What’s a red flag 🚩 you wish you saw sooner ?
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Saw this in another bowl and wanted to pass it along for awareness. Please consider using natural options if you color and embrace your natural hair. The same goes for using organic cotton pads, a lot of hygiene/beauty products are killing women. http://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/hair-straightening-chemicals-associated-higher-uterine-cancer-risk
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I wanna be like that kid on the right 🥲
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My director is hot
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One has got to go! Goodbye potato salad!
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Rising Star
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Gangster to the core
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Always watch how they treat others
If they are always or even often complaining
Negativity
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I started a guy and it wasn't until I saw how he and his family treated his mother that it crystalized what was wrong with how he treated me (long story but tldr: took teasing way to far and then made fun of me for asking for it to stop).
I pay a lot more attention to how they treat people, especially those in their family.
Asking for red flags is def the one
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EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE AND NOT OVER PAST EXES
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I’m trying to EMPHASIZE MY WORDS
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Lying
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🗣️ LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
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The Turkish flag is red, i love the food i wish I had found it sooner than i did
In different relationships: stinginess, lack of friends and how they hold grudges.
Not necessarily lots of friends, more about quality of relationships. The 🚩 IMO is not having close enough people to balance life.
Hyperindividualism and self serving narcissism, 9 times out of 10 this is a trauma response.
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I’m hyper independent - stemmed from my parents not being reliable so I learned from a young age I could only trust myself to get stuff done
Obviously checking out other women
They're eyes 🙄. If it really bothers you, talk to him but just because a guy is dating you, it doesn't mean he'll magically stop finding other women attractive. If he acts on it that's another story but looking? Unless he's ridiculously obvious about it, I don't think it's a big deal
If they often joke about being crazy, they probably are
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Crying on the first date
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Adam’s apple
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When he said other girls were hot/sexy while we were driving.
Also (interracial) when he kept infusing my race into things/sending me memes about black people/culture. 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩
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That's terrible. Sorry you had to go through that! You dodged a bullet.
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Not having a real relationship until 40. Having a fecal transplant.
How exactly does a fecal transplant work?
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Advertising 🤣
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Like false advertising?
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In interviews I find it to be a red flag when management folks say there is no training or they want new hires to hit the ground running. I just accepted it in the past but now I’ll reject the offers if that’s the response.
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Teethy, can’t handle size. Thought there would be some adaptations but 3 years in we still need to take two day breaks.
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Isolating me away from friends and family
When they ask about what race of men I've dated in the past. It's always a red flag.
And lovebombing. Too many compliments early in the relationship has also been a red flag
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Instability, living for the moment
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It’s fine if they know boundaries and moderation.
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She literally had a little black book that she kept meticulously up to date with everyone she'd ever done something with, and kept it in her bedside table
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