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What’s dating like in nyc for someone in their mid-30s? I’m starting to date after the end of a 15 year relationship (ended a few months before covid) so all this is fairly new to me.

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Not good honestly. Although better than most places.

I’m not making bank like many people around my age.

Trust me women our age are so desperate to meet a decent man that nobody cares, as long as you’re not gray and wrinkled

Are you a guy or a gal? It’s not too hard and it’s definitely not all about money.

I’m a dude

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