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Whoever reported my comment for using a curse word for effect, thanks loads 🙄
There is nothing "disrespectful" about this advice and I've taken the big scary F word out of it:
Failproof strategy:
- 3 bars: 1 near your home, 1 near work, 1 in a fun neighborhood you like to chill. Become a regular. Get to know the staff and regulars (this expands your network and adds randomness)
- 2-3 hobbies: follow your passions. Seek experience that is inherently intimate, or inspirational, or physical -- because these bring people together (fitness class, dance lessons, urban foraging hike, storytelling podcast, museum tours, shows, whatever). TALK AFTER!
3 - just be a new yorker. Don't just be on the receiving end of cool stuff. Similar to above, ask yourself: am I merely interestED or interestING?
Date friends of friends you meet via the above
Chief
Make lots of friends, then friends of friends.
That’s a good list, thanks!
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Be hot
Being cute is better than being hot bc guys are nicer to you lol. YouTube makeup tutorials, play up the youth and cuteness
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Be rich
Leave the city.
Bruh, I just got here 😒
“Accidentally” bump into someone you’re attracted to at a bar and then apologize - that’s how I met my bf 🤷🏼♀️