Whats the best way to meet Indian women? I’m a 25y M living/working in a smaller city with not many Indians. Looking for a relationship but not sure where to begin. Looking for someone raised here.

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Online dating. That's how I met my boyfriend, now fiance. ATL, 25F for more perspective

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Can I ask what site? Stuff like dil mil is hard because it’s location based and there aren’t many Indians in my location.

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I just don’t like shaadi.com since that’s what my parents want me to use, and that automatically makes it less cool 😂.

Also feels very “desi” and has this arranged marriage vibe, which I think a lot of Indians born/raised abroad don’t want.

25 too young in 2019. Please date for a few years atleast

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OP asking the million dollar questions 🙂

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