What's the biggest difference in levels that's acceptable for dating (on a scale of Intern to Parter)?

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My girlfriend is one level over me. The dirty talk about me being her bitch analyst gets weird

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Among other things, it can affect their careers.

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If same firm, 1 level is okay. Anything beyond that will be judged, the bigger the difference the more judging

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If different firms it doesn't matter

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Why do you and should you care what's acceptable? If you have your reasons then that's all you need.

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2 Levels.. Beyond that get ready for name calling

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I see people always saying not your own firm, don't pick up tail where you get your mail, don't shit where you eat, etc. I agree with not doing it personally, but have never seen it hurt anyone exactly, and I've seen it happen pretty often.

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1 level, and that assumes the other person isn't with the same firm

Let's make it with the same firm.

I think he meant if it's acceptable to the audience not really the 2 (or 3?) involved

Again, why should anyone be concerned about what an 'audience' thinks is acceptable?

What does a Parter do exactly?...

What if same age range but took a different path and came back later on so at lower level?

Stay away from your own firm

Have seen 4 level differences for serious relationships at same firm lol. Do what you wanna do

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