What’s the point of committing to one person when there’s always someone better out there?

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Because there is an equal number of people that are worse. Also you’re assuming you could snag these better people.

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This is the problem with gay dating..

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Yikes OP

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You will also be on the receiving part of that statement. If that’s your motto, don’t get frustrated when someone dumps you with that sentence: “sorry OP1, XYZ is better than you, bye!”

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If you only want to f***, that’s a fair point. If you want love, it gets so much better with time.

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Do you know how economics work?

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You should read the velvet rage...

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Because being content is the only way to happiness.

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For starters, someone ‘better’ won’t always want you. To wrap up, what two (even average) people can do together to create better over time, is more awesome than any single person can give you in the short-term

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Because when you find the right person, it stops mattering that there are “better someones” out there..

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Sometimes, there's not. Sometimes the person you're committing to is the absolute BEST, flaws and all.

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