whats the shortest time you met someone before they told you they loved you and/or vise versa?

Has anyone dealt with coming to terms with an emotionally abusive relationship? I struggle to admit this (because more drastic examples come to mind), but my therapist mentioned that things like yelling/throwing things/blocking me from leaving the room are also abusive traits my ex demonstrated. It makes me feel alienated from myself — like “how could I have allowed myself to be treated like that?”. Also feeling ashamed to tell anyone

My in laws keep saying to stop teaching my 9 month old baby or she’ll learn too fast. Um what?

How to overcome the pain of seeing someone you had feelings for get into a new relationship

I don't have any friends in banglore. It is hard for me to find friends cause i am always that aloof kid who in addition is not straight so can't even bond with my teammates. How do people live like this. Even my flatmates don't talk . : (

Best states for adoption if you're in a same-sex marriage?

Man, "What? I'm in a meeting?"
Woman, "Did you leave the refrigerator door open again?"
Man, "I can't right now I'm in a meeting, can you close it"
Woman, "Please, make sure it's shut, how many times do I have to tell you. My breast milk is in there, I'm already taking care of one child I don't need another. I'm not your mother!"
Planner,"Hey man, we wanted to tell you but I guess you couldn't hear us. Your camera was off but you weren't on mute.'

How has life changed for you since March 2020? From a personal point of view, I would love to hear unique points of view and perspectives of how their life is different now from before.

How to still feel confident when siblings or cousins significant others are richer and make more money then you? Or what if they are better looking then your significant other?

So excited about being local for a few weeks and spending time with my SO (staffed locally). Pretty sure big D sensed this glimmer of happiness & purposely staffed him on a 6 day/wk travel gig.

Just broke up with bf of 11 months. First serious relationship. How long until this terrible feeling ends?

Correct me if I'm wrong... For those who are older than I am.. I feel like a long term partner and marriage is really not what I envision at the beginning. Its more of just settling for what it is and compromising?

At what point does it not make sense to buy/ build a bigger home? My husband dislikes our house immensely (was his with former wife) and wants to move. Only owes $180k on it, we’ve been together 6 years and thus I’d rather just remodel. It’s the only thing we disagree about - moving or staying. He doesn’t want to invest one more cent in this house.

Last December, my mom said I needed to check myself into a mental hospital. It was a deliberate attempt to hurt, she knew I was getting help and not at risk.

We've had little contact this year but I feel intense guilt about her not seeing her grandkid much. Im learning about our intergenerational trauma and how to set better boundaries. She continually violates them. She sends texts to say I'm "mean" and "ruining the holidays".

Does the guilt go away? Do you go no contact, kid included?

Hopefully this bowl thrives, I could use the perspective. Going through a divorce with two kids now.

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Hi everyone I am relocating to Hyderabad next month. Even though I look forward to meeting new people I can’t seem to ignore the fact that I will move away from family. My family situation is already complicated, my mom and dad are not on good terms so we don’t live together and when I move it’ll get worse. I am financially independent but I feel guilty for not being there for them. Is there any possibility of getting transferred to Gurgaon office(a lot closer to my home)if I talk to my manager?

How’s your work-life balance at the moment? Do you think research positions allow enough time for us to spend with friends and family?

Confession: I love staying home with my husband and dog, and I kinda dread the pandemic ending. I don’t want to be forced to leave my house. I never want to go to the office again. I don’t really miss socializing with colleagues and friends. I absolutely love staying home and dread the day I’m expected to go into the office even a couple of days a week. I think I’ll be very depressed leaving my husband and dog every day after seeing how nice it is to stay home with them.

Hi everyone. Wanted to get your thoughts on this situation. I was in an extremely toxic relationship with a narcissist for over 10 years. The trauma and abuse resulted in responsive abuse meaning I would turn into a person I was not proud of. I could “justify” some of my actions because I was in survival mode at the time. All of this trauma resulted in extreme depression and anxiety especially in regards to romantic relationships (I now know I have an anxious attachment style). Continued below..

How do you nicely tell your boyfriend you are not happy in your relationship? Please advise.

Looking to leave my current job I need recommendations in UK remote if possible, either ways I am ok to go into the office. Looking for HR/Admin position, have transferable skills. Got Masters CIPD from Westminster, London

What kind of lesson plan forms do you use?

At what $$$ do Sr. CWs top out in SF?

Planning for a family trip for 15 people in Dec. Looking for an international place with warm weather (Caribbean, Maldives). Do you have recommendations on villas that can accommodate all of us?

Hi,
Has anyone appeared for PWC's recruitment process related to Hadoop+Spark profile??
If someone can help regarding:
What all rounds of evaluation happens and
what kind of questions can be expected.

Keeper league. I can keep cooper kupp in the 3rd round or Michael Pittman in the 15. What do you all think?

Hi everyone, can I travel to my home country(India) on maternity leave , for visa stamping.

Anyone tried to withdraw their PF?

Does anyone have thoughts on Steptoe?? All opinions welcome thanks everyone!

What class years do you consider midlevel? 3-4?

Anyone interested in doing a collaboration on a YouTube video? Want to bring in other perspectives.

Those who just left ibm, what did yall do with your 401k?

What to read or watch before first flight lesson to maximize what I get from it? Got one as a gift. 1hr desk, 1hr cesna

I teach Economics and Personal
Finance at a specialty school. I use NGPF for personal finance but I am seeking Economics lessons for G&T

Is Bubly a healthy switch from soda? I'm addicted to carbonation 😬

Hi, can anyone refer me in Deloitte? I have the requisition ID. Pls
Thank you:)

Since BL posted that singles post, I've realized that the F🐠 are way more of a catch than the M🐠. Sadly I am a heterosexual F 😔

I spent 8 years at the same company, left in 2020 and am looking for job number 3 since then. I’ve grown my salary and experience significantly. I’ve received excellent feedback, recognition, and appreciation in both companies. But still, I quickly reached a point where I felt like this isn’t the place for me. I reach a point of frustration with the leaders, with the obstacles to reaching my personal goals… and as respected as I have been, I’m beginning to wonder if I’m the problem.

I thought Martha's vineyard was in Virginia (part of Washington's estate) until i was 20. For reference I'm from the south so never went and would see southern ppl wearing vineyard Vines sometimes and figured it had to be south of the mason Dixon line

Very weird question to ask. 😄
Has anybody tried and tested ways to have a particular gender kid? I see chinese calendar theory and some sperm race thing.. lol. Planning baby *2 and hoping for the opposite gender of baby 1. Before anyone comes at me, we just would like to have one of each, and are not gender biased. 😊

I work at a 40 person company and about 35 went to the same very highly regarded school. 5 of us (including me) went to an easier school but 2nd in the state. The majority likes to make fun of us, like a 45 year old dude still making college hate jokes.

But it’s always fun to remember we ended up in the same place making the same money. And they worked so much harder for it.

David Lindhagennnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!you upto no good😒🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐

Alright im 5'11 but why are there so many people 6'0 that are shorter than me?

Connected with somebody but never got another message again: silence means no, right? Moving on.

I slept at 9pm, got up at 12:45am and worked until 4:45am 😮‍💨 🤣 💤

Your sibling spilled water on your personal laptop, now the laptop won’t turn on. What do you do?

When the relationship was going great, but 6 months in you get the ick…. Another one bites the dust.

I feel like I'm abnormally disgusted by unattractiveness. I don't show it, but I feel it. This includes people I like. And myself when I'm gross. What's wrong with me.

I've been eating KFC for lunch and dinner every day for the last two weeks. I lost two pounds

I am so thankful for my husband. We’ve had a rough year. But when he just pulled up his calendar app, I peeked the “therapy” recurring event for every Tuesday coming up.

It took a really long time to nudge and ask and plead and toss everything short of an ultimatum at him to start this work on his personal and emotional development.

There were times I wasn’t sure anything would change, and I worried maybe I was just wasting time… but he’s still proving he’s the right one :)