When are you required to buy someone a Christmas gift? Been seeing a guy since September and not sure if we are doing gifts or not

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3 months dating exclusively I think ... doesn’t have to be something big

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Same boat been dating gf since aug. I think I’ll get her a gift and just not expect anything back

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I remember I was in the same boat a couple years back with a guy. I brought something to a Christmas brunch we had planned. It was something simple like nice socks and cookies. Well, he said, “Awww, I didn’t know we were exchanging gifts.” And I was fine with that. Anyway, he excused himself and ran to the car to get his gift for me with a card. It was an essential oils diffuser. I loved it! Again, neither of spent probably more than $20, but it was sweet to feel thought of. Just go for it. That’s the Christmas spirit! 🎄🎄🎄

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Not required but I love Christmas and gifting. BF picked up on this and bought me a gravity blanket because I mentioned it at one point. He was going to buy me an air fryer but I beat him to it and bought myself one. Got him an Oros pullover along with some other winter gifts. We sprung more on the price but it was more about the thought behind. We've been dating since July. I would say gifting depends on how you two are.

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Our situation is kinda weird because we’re together and exclusive but haven’t gotten to the labeling yet

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So pretty much gf/bf without the titles. Get an experience gift that’s what I’m doing

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Is gifts either one of your life languages? If not, dinner or a nice ornament or flowers or booze or whatever.

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I would do what your heart says and not worry about what the other would think. If I received it, I’d say thank you

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