When chatting with a match if there’s a connection sometimes the flirting turns into sexting but I’m a virgin. Never know how or when to bring it up.

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When you’ve met and determined there is a real emotional connection after a couple of months would be my guess

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It’s not a dealbreaker. I took a few and was always stoked about it. Always tried my best to make it as relaxing as possible, and really give them the works.

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I was in this position before! I wasn’t necessarily waiting until marriage, but wanted to lose it to a guy who at least valued me and didn’t want to use me for sex. I did want to date to be in a relationship eventually though, so my situation helped weed out the guys who didn’t want anything serious. I literally had one guy freak out I was a virgin lol. But anyways, the right one wont care. I lost it to my now fiancé actually. I told him I was a virgin maybe 2 months into us talking. I think you should tell him when you get to know him better, and feel comfortable around him. Not a bad idea to tell him upfront either. His reaction will let you know if he’s worth the wait or not. All in all, be true to yourself and don’t let him pressure you into doing anything uncomfortable

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Hmm are you looking to stay a virgin until it’s a serous relationship/wedding? Why not be upfront with him and see if he’s a true keeper that respects you and doesn’t want to just get into bed with you.

So it sounds it’s not something you want to rush into until you get to know the guy. I think to see if you trust him, then you need time with him. Perhaps you can try to tell him you don’t want to get intimate until you get to know him better.

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