When dating, what do you expect men to bring to the table? I feel like men only ask that question with women they can control financially, but since that’s not the case for any of us, what should he offer?

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Acceptance, positive energy, friendship, loyalty, sex and stability.

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You done said a mouthful sis! To add to that, family oriented and healed from past relationships.

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Let’s not forget peace!

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Emotional safety and security, support, friendship,
good laughs and accountability. If spiritual, then encouraging you to grow your faith, pray over you and make sure you are secure in all realms :)

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I’m heavy on peace, stability, transparency, kindness, patience and leadership. I want to submit to my partner. I want to feel safe in his care - emotionally, spiritually, financially, and physically and I want him to feel safe with me as well.

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Support, love, enjoyment and fun, partnership, vision etc

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Emotional intelligence, communication skills, consistency & stability, fun & adventure. Make feel like he always chooses me (and vice versa!).

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Yessss

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Can I be shallow? A nice body and a healthy lifestyle. I take care of myself and I would like a partner to do the same. And yes, they also need to have faith in God, attend church and be able to lead a family which is most important but I also need to be attracted to him lol.

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