When did you know you were in love or falling in love (did you try to self sabotage) 😅

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I’m happily married and have been with my husband almost 10 years, but every now and then I have vivid, haunting dreams about ex-boyfriends/past loves. Anyone else? Why does this keep happening and how do I make it stop?!

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So...what did you non Indian ladies think of Indian Matchmaking on Netflix? 😀
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From 22-27 I dated a guy who worked all the time with the hope we would get married. Lots of time spent alone since he was never around on trips and so called vacations. Recently, I broke up with him and just am really feeling like I wasted my twenties. I saw two girls walking down the street yesterday with pink balloons that spelled “23”... what I would give to have not wasted my time with this guy. Has anyone ever gone through this?

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