When did you know your marriage was over?

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When I realized I was the only one trying to solve our problems (he didn’t want to try counseling and suggested we just live as roommates - yes, because I made 3x what he did and liked the $$)

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When I realised that I was “sticking it out” to make it work (worried about judgement and also never wanted to be a divorced woman), and that I had 30+ years left with him and he was - awful to say this - dead weight. Have since meet someone new and it was 100% the right decision for me, in my situation. Good luck with your thinking OP. Asking the Q is great, as at least you are open to exploring the answer that’s right for you x

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When I saw condoms in the garbage and we never used them.

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Happy for you, you def dodged a bullet :)

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When I no longer felt loved, and I could honestly admit to myself that I no longer loved him. There was nothing to fight for.

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When the kid is involved and you notice that kids emotional well being is affected big time. Additionally, there is no effort from other side to work on relationship.

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When he threatened me in front of his mom whom I really cared for. I felt she gave me “permission” to leave.

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