When do you and your SO start telling each other your income?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We are not married or living together.

He knows how much I make because I told him after my promotion. He is the entrepreneur type with a passive income gig.

His business has been very slow since covid but he just seem to be chillin at home. He never tells me if he is doing financially okay so when I asked. He got offended and asked me to drop the topic because he is doing okay.

Which one to join GSK(X+3 bonus + 1 JB) as Data Engineer or Fujitsu consulting (x+3) fixed as System Architect??

Hi All, I have cleared all rounds for GSK and am being offered grade 7, and HR Hasn’t released the offer yet and asking my expectations. He hasn’t given me the full range. I have 9 + years of exp, and CCTC is 20.7 fixed, last year I got 40% bonus on top of my CTC. What is the range which GSK can offer for grade 7? And will it offer 7a or 7b or anything else? Please help!

Got an offer as a Senior 2 in EY’s FAAS practice for $117,500 base and $12,500 bonus. Home office is San Francisco. Is this expected for that position? Any insights?

Hi All,

Need your suggestion here
-Accenture 16lpa+3.3lpa variabl+ 2.3L.joining (project not that great & WFH or base location)
-Oracle- 16.9lpa + 1.2lpa variable ( project is good i mean no night shift unlike Accenture & till Dec WFH after that not sure
-Valuelab 20lpa fixed+ 1L joining ( project is ok ok and not night & WFH)

Can you please help me on this which to choose.
Skill: devops cloud

I have zero friends and I am so lonely ..... no friends. No boyfriend. Nothing. I am 26 yrs old and all I do is work - come home and watch TV :/

For 14.5L CTC what will be the approx fixed salary?

What are typical annual raises like in AM?

How long did it take to get the CPA bonus once the form was submitted?

How are bonuses like at Littler?

Hello fishes,

Happy to announce, I got first offer of 32LPA from MNC and my current is 9LPA. previously it was 3LPA in first job so in just 3 years i made it from 3 to 32LPA. so don't fall in "30%-40% as per industry standard trap" you decide your own worth, upgrade yourself, work hard study hard. and never depend on one income source, currently i have 4 income source. so take this as motivation, if you are struggling in your career. not here to show off.
TechStack: AI,ML,DL,NLP, CV YOE:3

If you get an inland promotion recently, will you be eligible for IJP without completing the 18 months in the role?

Hello Folks,

1- In Mindtree bonus and variable amount (12%) is given yearly or monthly with salary for Module Lead C3 band.

2- What is the role/responsibility of Module Lead C3 in Mindtree?

Tech Stack: Mobile App Developer (Android)

Kindly help on that.

What is the average salary for someone in claims with the AIC designation?

Empower retirement or Atos-Syntel? For job security and hikes?

I know WLB depends on project.🙂

Hi fishes! Currently working as manager in leading insurance company. YOE-2. Edu- btech in CS from DU and MBA in marketing and analytics from GLIM Chennai. Tools and technology: sql, R, python, qliksense, tableau, stats, ML, big data tools. CTC:14L. Expected 22L. I want to move towards BA manager role. Loc- bangalore. Any referrals or suggestions?

Can someone please share exact cut-off date to be eligible for a default hike and bonus for this year in Morgan Stanley?
Some people say it's before 1 September and some say before 1 October.
Can someone please check with any colleague or HR and confirm the same?

It will help me decide whether to join MS or not. My date of joining is mid September.
Thanks in advance!

How can I make friends in Chicago?

Who all are going to AYDE for Kolkata in June ? And on which date ?

Finally a group of Kolkata IT.
Guys is Kolkata really expanding its base in IT arena. Today I got the news Zoho and infrabeat opened their office in Newtown.

Do you keep interviewing after offer signed and background check cleared?

Solid relationship with AD, put in Rolex submariner date request … timeline?

Hi everyone! I’m looking for referrals to JP Morgan, Tiktok, Doordash, Uber, Coinbase, and Lime. Please let me know if you would be able to refer me and I’ll reach out. Thank you so much

Anyone else listening to the Rise and Fall of Mars Hill podcasts? What are your thoughts?

im 27 and could possibly retire if I kept my spending low. However you never know what’s going to happen, do you? How do you deal with the uncertainty?

May have made a mistake on an RJI re a related action. How important is the information on an RJI anyway? What happens if there’s a mistake on there?

Can anyone here give a referral?

Hi fishes,
I am currently working in Tech Mahindra as an ESG consultant. Looking for new opportunities in consulting, analyst position. I have a thorough knowledge of ESG- scope 1,2 & 3. Know CDP, DJSI disclosures. Also have certification in ISO27001, INTERNAL AUDIT AND RISK MANAGEMENT. Have a total experience of 2 years. Kindly refer.

What are your thoughts on taking a 6 month to a year sabbatical after about 5-6 years of work experience? My end goal is to move to the buy side but I would really like to experience the world before I settle down. Thoughts?

Looking to exit to PE post MBA coming from mckinsey. Would appreciate any tips. Feel to dm me if you went through that process. Would love to chat.

What does one typically talk about during an interview with the COO? I made it past 5 rounds plus a modeling exam so far.

On a fast track for promotion, and also have a good standing/reputation already within my MM bank so far. I also have a complicated visa situation that my bank is handling.
Not closed off but not really set on PE or anything.
Is it still worth starting fresh and likely a delayed promo at an EB?

I got an offer from Natwest. My current company is accenture and they are offering me to promote as an assoc manager if i take my resignation back. Shall i consider it? What whould i prefer Nat west or promotion in Accenture. How much hike accenture gives while promoting? Any inputs?

Wondering for anyone who got their CFF (Ceritified Financial Forensics) designation. Was it difficult? How long does it take to study for using the review course? Is the exam mainly multiple choice or short answer and how difficult? Any guidance or tips would help please. I already have my CFE but just want to know if CFF is worth it

Thinking I'm ready to leave WMP M&A, any suggestions on where to go?

Anyone else feel like the last 2 years had major implications w friendships? I no longer live close to the friends I grew up with. Anytime I did talk to them I just didn’t enjoy it, they are caught up in money and it always felt like we were all trying to one up each other. I’ve pulled away and started to invest in other friendships. It’s great, I guess sometimes I just wonder if I gave up nearly two decades of friendships bc we changed so much and I made it obvious I didn’t want them in my life

Thanksgiving is coming up and debating if I should invite woman I'm seeing to a family and friends gathering. On one hand we're super early into dating, on the other hand she knows very few here (foreign exchange student) and most likely doesn't have anything planned. Should I invite or not?

I've just been broken up with by a girl I love - any thoughts on trying to hold on to her?

I've been seeing a girl for about 6 months. She's said she's into me, and that I treat her well, and took a big step of introducing me to people that really matter to her 3 weeks ago.

Her reason is stress - She's doing a masters and has just been evicted so can't afford to stay in the same city. When her masters ends in December she may have to move back to the US, as she might not get a job here.

Relationship is going pretty well apart from my partner being pretty unhealthy… I like to eat clean in general but she doesn’t like veggies and I’m a little fearful for our future family if she’s just encouraging them to “eat what you feel like” is there anyway to help change this behaviour? Any suggestions? It’s not like I never go eat fast food or what not, just that our frequency of consuming desserts has increased exponentially after we started dating and she doesn’t exercise either

How do I know if my spouse is being emotionally abusive and a bully? Everytime they can, for any mistake, they unload on me. I’m about to explode.

Can someone please explain why some people bring up past emotional hurts during arguments even if you’ve apologized for them and they haven’t happened again? But they still feel the need to weaponize this moment and throw it in your face. And before anyone asks, no it’s not infidelity… just looking for advice/insight here

For the people in relationships/marriage in which the woman is making significantly more than the man, how have you fared so far? Would like to know your thoughts

What usually warrants a married couple to start living separately and coparent their child? No job or financial constraints just that the wife moved from the house with their child to an apartment nearby.

Anyone married but still have feelings about your ex? Like you love your SO but still have lingering feelings?

hi - new to this bowl. I want to make sure I’m not being irrational or dramatic lol.

My boyfriend forgot my upcoming birthday. He scheduled a pick-up hockey game on that day and when I asked him about it, he said it was important to him to play hockey with his friends and we could celebrate my birthday a different day. for context, we’ve been dating for over a year and he knows how important celebrating is to me. im pretty close to ending it... thoughts?

If you have an avoidant attachment style, how did you end up getting into a relationship (that lasted)?

Looking for advice on personal space in a relationship. Been in thus relationship for 6 months. I date here and there but have not been in a serious relationship in a long time. Been working late M-F since COVID started. I usually call my gf after work or before I go to sleep and we talk for an hr or so each night. And on Fridays I go to her place right after work and stay the weekend. I’m finding a lack of my own time because it’s either work or her throughout the week and weekends...

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

So something crazy happened to me last week. I was at the airport, and as usual on call after call. The check in line was going ridiculously slowly and at some point turned threw my hands up in frustration while looking around to find another place to check in. In doing so, I catch the eye of the behind me. He smiles and says something. I just sort of nod and carry on with my call. After that, he keeps trying to talk to me, eventually I got to the check, say bye and leave. At security… tbc

Someone find a pic and description for this bowl.

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

My old side piece and I have been over for a minute now. It was fun until we fell for each other. We are both 'happy'in our current relationships. We took a break from talking, it seemed like we were both still sensitive about the past and still have love for each other. Recently, he reached out and voiced that he wants to talk more. He video chat me, and now texts frequently. But he only texts when he's at work or in his car, when his girlfriend isn't around. Does this mean anything?