When do you and your SO start telling each other your income?
Since Covid has made all meetings virtual, it has become completely commonplace at my company for people to be double and triple booked for meetings, with the expectation that they will jump between all of them, chiming in as needed and asking to be caught up on what has been discussed if they have missed something. This seems completely unreasonable/unworkable to me as standard practice but I have never worked in another corporate environment having come from private practice. Is this common?
I recently relocated to Ireland with M level. I got to know that compensation is less and it's about 65k Euros for the manager band.
Can someone please let me know how to raise this? How much can we expect an increase in the pay ? rent is about 1700 euros for 2 beds.
Skillet Oracle, Power BI.
Senior 3 making $100K in a low cost of living city. Am I underpaid? What percentage raise should I expect if I get promoted to Manager?
Went through 2 egg retrievals & 1 miscarriage to get pregnant. I’ve been teleworking bc of COVID. However, I have to start going into the office during my third trimester. I don’t understand why it is necessary to put myself and baby at risk. 😔 Am I overreacting (pregnancy hormones)? Or would you be upset? Open to suggestions on how to look on the bright side. Thanks!
Alternatives to plasma transfusions for COVID patients- are there any reliable ones that have been confirmed?
Partners, till what age can an SM realistically hope to be considered for Partner promotion?
Ladies, I am so down right now and could use some advice. I was at Deloitte for almost 5 years and started to an analyst, was promoted to consultant and was on track for SC when one bad project and a really awful manager derailed things for me. I went industry and did marketing which I liked a lot, but could not sustain the pace and demands when my team was cut in half due to Covid. I was working the job of two to three people and the workload quadrupled. I worked nonstop. (Cont’d)
Have you noticed a reduced effort to host team building activities (virtual Happy Hours, etc) since the start of COVID?
Do you think most would rather separate work and socialization now that we aren’t traveling or meeting in person? Or do you enjoy the remote social activities?
I want a completely remote job at a non profit or government agency. I have no idea how to start looking. Have any of your jobs announced that they’re staying completely remote post covid?
Request your suggestions.
YOE : 4 Year
Role : Data Engineer
I have two offers in hand one from Tetadata and other from Accenture.
Teradata : 10.5 Fix
Accenture : 11 Fix + 21% Variable + 60K joining Bonus
Which one is the best suitable for my experience.
Deciding factor :
3. Yearly Increment
Dubai salary: anyone aware of what salary to expect as a junior copywriter? Also, what's the next raise I should be asking for?
Donate your time and talent to charities, social enterprises and startups impacted Covid-19.
Has anyone ever used an offer for a position at another firm or client to negotiate their salary higher without getting a promotion in the process?
As of now how many days in a week shell is calling employees to office? Does it provides wfh in regular days like when there was no COVID situation,on need basis?Shell
Fishes - curious about % raise in salaries at Big 4 and boutique consulting firms given the high inflation. What have folks been getting? Heard some tech firms offer raises as a “cost of living” adjustments but not sure how real that is
I had my mid-year review earlier this month (it was delayed because my group is slammed). I started in September 2019, after a state supreme court clerkship. I received great reviews, and was hoping for a raise. The reviewing partners told me that firm evaluates for raises in July, and it is firm policy not to give raises to associates that have been with the firm for less than a year. The practical effect of this is that I will not receive a raise until July 2021, 20 months after starting.
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Can anyone help me by referring in Amdocs.
Thanks in advance.
How is the BEC exam under the new format?
Do people tip outside of restaurants? I.e. Chipotle, Liquiteria, fast casual takeaway lunch spots?
How much can we get using leave travel allowance. My ctc is 16 lpa. Planning to go Andaman...
Please help me here.
Hi! I was wondering if it helps to get a CAPM certification irrespective of the field you are in?
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Entering my senior year and can’t decide between consulting route or finance/investments. My goal is to be in an environment that requires you to always learn about various subjects. Any tips?
am i a token minority?
i put in my two weeks at my job b/c i’m tired of the lack of teaming and development.
my direct team was like “ok” (no surprise, i don’t think they like me either), but the rest of the department was like “what no, you’re a rockstar with a big future here. don’t leave”
i’m good at my job but i’m not irreplaceable so i think this has to be b/c i’m a minority woman that they want to make a token for DEI initiatives.
anyone else feel like this has happened to them?
One of My Friend looking for Job Change
Current CTC -6.5 LPA
Expected CTC -13-15LPA
Serving Notice Period
What should be the designation for 6.8 yrs experience as lateral hire at HCL? HR and promised to give Senior Tech Lead but on offer letter it is just Tech Lead. When asked now they are stating like finance payroll team are saying that Senior Tech Lead can be offered only for 7.5 yrs experience. HCL Technologies
Hello everybody, I'm searching for a job in Berlin from 27/09/2022 or also by now in remote. Can someone help me?
-Bachelor's degree in industrial design
-Master's degree in graphic design
-Master in Digital Marketing
They asked for all documents for releasing offer letter. After uploading that, they sent BGV links which was completed way back in April. Now its June, still i am waiting for Offer Letter. Recruiter not receiving calls! Ghosted by the firm or these things happen at the firm regularly? Wipro
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Got ghosted by a guy I was talking to for 4 months who also told me he loved me. Completely confused and totally discouraged from dating now, can’t trust anyone smh.
My friend just got out of a relationship and hooked up with his ex's best friend a week later. They're now dating and seeing each other everyday.
I couldn't help but feel like this wasn't an appropriate thing to do for both parties. He also revealed that he cheated on his past exes.
I'm naturally feeling a bit weary of his character and questioning whether this is a friend I want to keep close in my life. Perhaps I'm being too judgmental?
My s/o is a nurse but hates the job coz of the floor she's assigned to. There is no ability to move floors around at the moment. She's been wanting to get her Nurse Practitioner degree from for the past 3yrs, I've encouraged and pushed her to apply every couple months. Now I gave up on asking her to do that, coz she says yes everytime and never gets it done. Yet complains about hating the job.
What's another way to go about this? Can't help someone if they aren't willing to help themselves
How would you react if your significant other told you that you weren’t their ideal type and that they wished you had a biracial skin tone with less kinky hair but that they are trying to get over it because they still deeply love you/you’re attractive in your own way?
How much do people spend on engagement rings? I make about $130k in TC to put things into perspective.
Grass is Greener on The Other Side Syndrome - Advice Needed
I’m a 24 year old man with a 27 year old gf, have been dating a year and a half and we live together since January (in a house I own alone).
This will sound obnoxious but is the heart of the issue. I am very intelligent and always have been growing up (skipped years in school, currently doing my second part time masters and have been a straight A student my whole life). I am also a very high performer in work with high aspirations…
How would you feel if your SO hangs out with someone they've hooked up with for a few times in the past in a group setting?
Broke up with my boyfriend this morning because i need to find myself and have never been truly alone. Nothing majorly wrong with him. I’m absolutely devastated and feeling like a failure…. Trying to kook at the bigger picture but this really hurts.
How do you tell a long term partner they need to get off their ass and try harder? I work two jobs and basically pay everything in the household. He works partime during the week. His car died so he’s been using mine. I - keyword I - fixed his car so he can get out of mine. I’m upset he didn’t even consider doing an oil change on it. If you drive someone’s car for 3 months can’t you do maintenance on the depreciation. And his hs sister is going to live with us for 90 days. But he has no desire
I‘ve been in a relationship for 2 years, and my avoidant tendencies flare up every so often when I feel let down by my SO — e.g., usually when he’s blanked on something he should have done to make me feel more supported in work or social contexts. He knows this about me and supports me wholeheartedly as I continue to work through it — but I know I can be quite cold and distant in these rare but painful moments. How do others work through this, if at all?
**Need some Advise**
My ex and I broke up a month ago, but we work in the same office. She completes her first year at the office. Should I wish my ex-my now colleague?
This was a mutual break up and I am her first boyfriend. We both were in a living relation.
Indian F, 35 years old and getting divorced.
Afraid of being left alone for rest of my life.
I don't have lot of friends and I am so underconfident rn that no one would like me ever.
I don't have courage to put all the effort again in a relationship
Dating apps are basically just meaningless.
With this wfh I dont see a chance of making new friends even if I switch jobs.
Is this the end of my happiness?
What do I do to stay happy?
What’s the most equitable way to split rent and finances (e.g., living expenses, going out together) when considering moving in with an SO who is in graduate school and has no real source of income?
The guy I was seeing for 2 years randomly ended things with me stating he does not want to take it forward. Recently got to know that his mom thinks that we were just friends all this while. Not sure whether to let it go or set clear what it was so he does not mess with other people
How do you all split your finances with your spouse/live-in partner? I'm looking to take a job that's more than double my partner's income and we decided to split it proportionally (so she pays say around 30% and I'd pay 70%). I'm curious to see how others worked this one out
Do people actually meet each other naturally anymore? It’d be nice to meet someone naturally than rely on dating apps (which is exhausting & just doesn’t feel real)
Ive been in a relationship for 7 months. We met 4+ years ago but it didn't go anywhere at that time. We kept running into each other throughout the years and stayed cordial. When we started talking again this time around, I had flat out asked him about many things including education. Contd.
Anyone know how to deal with the “girl best friend?” My boyfriend insists she is just a friend but she seems a bit too friendly and while I trust him I don’t trust her?
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