When have you washed your hands of a junior? What was the last straw?

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When she didn’t know the difference between plaintiff and defendant and couldn’t keep it straight after I explained it repeatedly.

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This was my 1L writing partner for our capstone oral argument and brief. After we wrote a brief, he stood up for his portion of our oral argument and argued for the other side (and against the brief he purportedly wrote). My teacher was very kind. I was very frustrated. It was pretty unbelievable.

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Never. If I hired them then I see potential. I tend to be tough on my staff and even my partners sometimes. If you make it through my vetting process, nothing you do can make me “wash my hands” of you. I’m just going to put extra effort in to ironing out the kinks.

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Arrogance.

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Mine was having a fellow schedule critical dates wrong. Consistently sending calender invites to court dates in the wrong year, e.g. 8 May 2021.

Can see how it would be a small screwup, but a lot of other screwups made it clear he has zero attention to detail, and just expects other people to catch his mistakes.

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Agree, but worth noting that this incident occurred after the Partner had taken similar steps and had that discussion. Some people aren't cut out for roles, if that becomes clear to a manager then I respect them for cutting that cord sooner rather than later.

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