When is it time to settle for a guy? Settled for many years and now at 29 I refuse to do so. Bummed out to break things off with a guy who had issues in bed & dif love language. So funny, hot and cont

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Settle? There is never a right time to settle for a man or anything for that matter

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Introspective, which I loved. But was it wrong to run? Tried to go back, however he won’t give me a word. I guess I just need to know deep down I knew the bedroom issues wouldn’t work for me....

Read “attached”, will find yourself in one of the attachment styles and can go from there.

I feel like we're on the same boat. I've been with this person for 5 years now and I feel miserable more than half of the time. This was when I was still traveling every week for work. Just imagine after covid-19 started, we're together 24/7. I tried to leave a few times, but for some reason I'm still here. Sometimes I dislike myself for the some of the decisions I made or should I say, did not make. Sorry, I did not have really answer your question. Hope it gets better for you.

Never settle!

Getting married is a lifetime commit. So much better to break up now than to get married and then divorced. Don’t make your family and friends listen to you vow to be with someone for better or for worse until death do you part if you don’t mean it with every fiber of your being.

And if you know you’re not going to marry him, break up now

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