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When is the right time to tell your boss or the firm that you are pregnant, especially if your body type can hold the secret for a while.

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Heartiest congratulations 🎊
I'm currently 10 weeks pregnant and plan on telling my project and leadership around the 20 week mark. It'll be even later for some people if we're not too close at work.
My nausea and first trimester symptoms are not too bad and I'm able to snack often as I'm home. If youre having bad symptoms and it is harder for you to work, it might be OK to set some expectations with your manager if you're close.

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You are at home, how about a month before?

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Hahaha

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When you are ready to. I told the firm at 20 weeks with both.

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I’m 20 weeks. Planning on telling firm this week.

MD was super supportive as was my practice. I’m waiting to tell the team / client for another few weeks to ensure I have a plan. I feel there is competitiveness with my team so I want to make sure I have a plan and people don’t start icing me out...

Thank you all for the input. Any advice on managing this with clients? My symptoms are quite severe as I feel sleepy and nauseated all the time at the moment. Although we are working from home, I still have some client meetings to attend and I am just not sure when I should tell the firm because it's like asking them for some slack meanwhile I am being given a bigger role soon.

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