When something makes you angry or upset, do you sometimes have violent thoughts?

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Yeah I do. I can see how we’re descended from chimps honestly - specifically for racist/sexist/selfish or outright dangerous behavior that others engage in while in public and I see it triggered especially when driving (I.e drivers who never use signals, putting pedestrians and other drivers at risk for sudden turns with no warning, running red lights, running stop signs, speeding up in a lane when they see another driver signal) then there’s micro aggressions that I as a non white woman gotta deal with on the regs when in the public like seeing white people never shift or move to their right when they encounter me on the sidewalk, and their presumption that I need to always give in to them in any public space as if I’m a second class citizen.

I think it’s normal to feel this way.

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Haha glad to know that there are similarities

Sometimes, but I make very clear mental guardrails in my head that these are just thoughts/imagination and should firmly never go beyond that

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Yea

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