when you chilling in bed during work hours and somebody pings you

25M here. What's a good approach to asking out females in their 30s & 40s? Looking to avoid coming off either too forward or bashful. Thank you!

Where should you take someone on a first date? Not an app find or a hookup so want to do something nice. 28M

I feel like a lot of straight guys would benefit from a woman friend reviewing their dating profiles to tell them which pictures to use.

Saw my coworker on Tinder. Her husband also works in finance but a different bank... Do I swipe right?

Who here is comfortable meeting up? Socially distant walks or outdoor dining / happy hours. If interested, comment below or DM me and we can get a group chat going.

Men who are fit and have ripped bodies, does that help with getting the ladies ?

I work under a man who is a misogynistic a-hole. That is all.

Desi guys,
Do you like it if a girl approaches you asking for your number that too at a random place?
I just missed a guy that I saw at Costco (he appeared single) & I so wanted to strike a chord but

How do you manage to find someone to date 🥹

Any of you folks stray (ie cheat) / currently straying in a relationship? How’d it happen? Why’d it go down? Did you tell, etc?

I know there are a lot of people here that are in an open relationship - for y’all: did it ever cross over into something more than just physical?

Recently joined apple and decided to use one phone for both personal and work: will it be ok for me to continue using apps like Tinder, Bumble for dating purposes (and exchange sexy pictures)? Like will Apple be able to access these data? Also what about iMessages?

Have started going on dates with a guy. Our dates don’t seem to be consistent. One date is great and the next date is just ok. Is this normal?

Female here. Had a very successful first date recently - several hours long, interesting conversation, great chemistry. I felt a special connection and thought it was mutual. It’s been a long while since I’ve been excited about anyone and thanks to corona, it’s been a while since I’ve been in male company period, so I really want to accelerate things (see each other again soon) and not play it slow. He declined my offer to meet up today and didn’t seize the opportunity to make alternate plans.

Has anyone been to the Zoolights at the Zoo? I have never been, I'm relatively new to the area. Is this a good event for a casual walk around date night?

Me: “You’re gonna marry me one day!”
Him: “If I play my cards right, you’ll say yes to me one day!”
Me: 🥹🥹🥹 (and that was after I queefed in his face when he went down on me. Yep, I’m the person who posted that just the other day in the “most embarrassing in bed story thread. Y’all should go join in on the fun and read some crazy funny stories😂)

Hi Everyone
I am planning to do a short bike ride today evening to Lonavala
Any F interested to accompany me?

Do you feel that dating scene change significantly for you when you hit 30 (esp if you are btm)?

Do men in their 30s actually want to settle down and get married? It seems like most are pretty happy with their single lifestyle. Asking as a 26F who is looking for commitment if I should even bother

Can someone figure out how to create a virtual speed dating event? Would anyone be interested in joining?

Any F fish up for a drink in Santa Monica today or tomorrow?

It’s a long shot, but is anyone here a current member of the University Club and willing to sponsor my membership?

Would anyone have a breaking into wallstreet course they would be open to sharing?

Does anyone have experience using Microsoft Projects for large engagement management? Pros and cons?

just found out I failed AUD. I thought I nailed the exam but failed with a 70. Plan to re-take in 2 weeks. Any advice/recommendation on review to push 5 more points is reallyyyy appreciated!!

Does anyone have any experience with MNTN’s CTV solution? It seems like it’s got a lot of what’s needed in the CTV space, but I worry about if it can scale all that well, as well as the next 12-18 months of viability as privacy lockdown takes hold. Their system appears like it could be on pretty shaky ground without ad identifiers that are disappearing.

Appreciate any thoughts if you have conceptual analysis of their value or direct experience in working with them.

What's with the awful delay in publishing the new visa bulletin?

Have offers from The Economist and SITA as Tech BA / 8 YoE

Both offer almost same compensation.

How to decide ?

Is it worth it to exit for pharma sales? I know some people have made the switch. The money is tempting but I can't help wondering if it's just a "grass is greener" situation

I’m new to the city and feel a bit lonely here. Any advice on how best to spend the long weekend? No plans whatsoever :(

Does it help if your recommenders are alums or the school? Eg hbs?

Creative directors: what, in your opinion, is the best way to handle work in a marketing agency? What is the culture at your agency like?

How much tip should I give a team of movers who are packing and unpacking all of my belongings and transporting them almost 200 miles?

Thoughts on CAIA? Difficulty, hours studied, study tips, overall experiences, etc.? I’ll be sitting for Level 1 in September. Currently work in the fund of funds space - moving over to my firm’s hedge fund research team soon so CAIA seemed like a perfect way to get knowledge in the area beforehand. I’m almost one year out of undergrad (econ background) so a lot of the CAIA content is new to me

Group Account Director with 13 years experience. $170k — how underpaid am I compared to similar roles in NYC?

Any parents on here? Very interested in moving to Ireland, but not sure what kind of salary I need to not struggle to make ends meet. Looking to get some perspective from anyone.

Let’s talk Salary. I’m seeking an in-house counsel position as an Associate at a large financial institution. Headquarters is San Antonio, TX. I have 13+ years of Regulatory experience in other industries and 3 years at a large financial institution. I researched on Indeed and there was only one salary posted. I’m currently employed at the company in the legal department in a non-attorney position. I’d appreciate any feedback on salary ranges or strategies on negotiating a pay increase.

Got an offer for the GM role at a startup. What's the expected pay range for this role? Interested in salary, equity, variable pay, bonus, etc.

Hello all! In the recruiting process with Meta and looking for referrals to boost my chances!

How do you deal with burn out? Not quiting your job burnout more need a few days off. My last deals close next week and I'll be working every day and I plan to take the week of Christmas off but how do you push through when your burnt to a crisp?

To all the boys, have any of you stopped grooming/shaving facial hair? Like altogether? I’m on my 5th week w/o grooming (just some touch ups), and I like the look of it lol

Looking to go camping (tent) the week of the 4th. Based in western PA but willing to drive. Want something that won’t be crowded so I can relax and do some reading & meditation in quiet. Any recommendations?

How much tip should I give a team of movers who are packing and unpacking all of my belongings and transporting them almost 200 miles?

Firm tightening costs bc of corona. They are looking at billables and looking to fire people who are underperforming. Not that layoffs are better, but why firing vs laying off in a time like this?

Did anyone go to their local city’s protests?

I think I've started to limit myself to the same few activities since the pandemic: study, eat, cook, watch tv, walk/run, abs. I'm starting to feel very stale. Can anyone suggest anything for me?

Seriously where is toilet paper available in Chicago?!

Looking to sublet a 1 bedroom apartment in Midtown Manhattan for $2.58k/month net. DM me if interested!

Is it unprofessional to do an online interview from your phone?

Does anyone else find it hard to be active/motivated at work during January? It’s always so cold and dark outside that I find myself so tired. I keep waking up right before work, too. I need it to be spring ASAP 😩

Anyone looking to sublet/transfer
lease for their NYC apartment? Ideally
looking for a studio

Can we have a serious discussion on the stock market? Why is there a big contrast between Wall Street and Main Street? What do you foresee? Are you on the sidelines waiting or are you actively in it now? I want to know all your thoughts and predictions.

I was invited to a destination wedding and I can't go. I do like them, we're not close at all - never hung out just me with the couple, only in group settings. I was probably an afterthought / second round invite. But we travel in the same circle and I do want to send them something.

How much to spend?

Someone from PwC asked “People in their 30s, any advice for people in their 20s” (paraphrasing). Same question but advice for people in their 20s who grew up poor (no not middle class either). People who had no financial backing and no choice but to take on debt. When living with mom/dad isn’t an option after school. First to graduate college in their family. Just felt like a lot of people answering in that thread don’t relate.

My doctor who I’ve been seeing for a very long time told me it’s fine to hold off getting the vaccine being that I’ve already had it, im young, and healthy. Think I’m going to listen to him as opposed to y’all “consultants”.

Is anyone still going to Sawcon this summer?

I think someone here posted about offering to babysit their new neighbors kids. Did that ever happen?